Imagine you are shipwrecked… how far would you swim to get back to society?

Imagine you are shipwrecked… how far would you swim to get back to society?

I made my birthday week special by having a long, 90-minute private call with every active student of mine in my Growth course.

There are things you can see in an interactive course, and then there are things you can see in a private one-on-one call.

What I saw this week is priceless.

I saw how rigidity and fear, scarcity and timid moves, how living in survival actually looks when you look through actions. Continue reading “Imagine you are shipwrecked… how far would you swim to get back to society?”

I am not your mother! I.am.not.your.mother, damit!

I am not your mother! I.am.not.your.mother, damit!

I am not your mother! Yelled the chiropractor. Thank god, I thought, but she continued, and then, ultimately refused to provide care.

This happened to me several times, in several environments, not just with chiropractors and not just with women.

Like every person on this planet, I live my life out in a machine. No, not the Matrix, albeit I may, but I am not aware of that. But I am painfully aware about the personal hell machine I created with my words. Continue reading “I am not your mother! I.am.not.your.mother, damit!”

When you are satisfied with your skill level, you are already shrinking

When you are satisfied with your skill level, you are already shrinking

And most likely you are also blind… comfortable in your ignorance.

I am having a week of many one-on-one calls. Each very different, each very educational for me a lot more than for the client/student.

Why? Because it is really hard, near impossible to hear what I say, or what there is to see for them, through the ‘already always listening’… i.e. what they are sure of. What Mark Twain addresses in his famous saying: it is not what you don’t know that gets you into trouble but what you know for sure, that just ain’t so…

The more rigidly fixed the untrue view, the untrue conviction about how it is, reality, you, people, the less likely that you’ll hear, that you’ll see what there is the see: what would set you free.

It is almost as if you insisted on being stuck, as if you insisted on being limited, jailed, enslaved, and miserably with hardly any results in life that are worth having.

What allows you to see what there is to see? What allows you to hear what there is to hear?

Not surprisingly it is the ‘master DNA capacity’, The Sight.

It is easier to tell the difference between having The Sight on or off, by what you don’t see.

If you looked at a slide through the microscope, you would see what you see, and it wouldn’t make sense to you… In your view, without The Sight, everything looks like everything else… no distinction.

With The Sight you suddenly see that things are different, you see the timeline, you see the cause and effect, you see that if something isn’t true, then everything that is derived from it must be not true.

But if you don’t have The Sight, it is like you see the world as a gray mass… everything/nothing… no difference.

Two and a half months ago I turned on The Sight capacity for 19 people. At the peak 10 people manage to keep the capacity on for a whole day. Today, only two has it on.

I am in communication with both. Both are actively working with The Sight… needing it, so they can see stuff they are actively seeking.

The rest returned to the ‘everything is the same as everything else’ state.

What can you do in my programs to keep The Sight on?

One method I taught was to ask: What am I not seeing? But specifically suspecting that you are not hearing, not seeing something in what I say in some of my programs, in some of my recorded conversation.

I know you hear everything. But the truth is: you hear between 0-10%, so 90% plus are hidden from your view. How do you get to them?

Through looking more, listening more, even though it feels a waste of time, it feels foolish, after all there is nothing different there. But it is either that you hear what you have already heard… i.e. you are stuck in what you think you know, or you hear nothing.

I hate learning myself. I hate the feeling stupid, inane, clueless part. Yes, me too.

But that doesn’t always stop me to go for it. Sometimes it takes me having a pep talk with myself, but eventually I relent, and go to endure the pain.

I used to be a serial course taker, and I am again in that phase.

I know when to start taking courses again. When? when I start feeling good about how much I know, how clever I am, how well things are going. Then it is time to go back to humility, and the best way for me to humble myself is to set myself up to feel stupid, clueless, slow, inane… you get the drift.

I have been doing this all my life, and I managed to bring my pain threshold (TLB) up to 70, while most people I know or teach have their TLB at 1.

When your TLB is 1, you will shy away from any effort, any pain, any discomfort, and get upset by anything less than perfect in your view.

Practicing The Sight capacity is nothing pleasant. After all you are setting yourself up to feel bad about your abilities. And that is the point.

When you feel good about your abilities, you are already shrinking. And most likely you are also blind… comfortable in your ignorance.

Interestingly the same is happening in the water energizing challenge. Lately I missed a day here and there… and while I was busy doing other things, the Water Energizing Challenge people also got busy with other things… and dropped the ball.

There is a measure I look at in my Starting Point Measurement that is measuring to what degree you are self-sufficient, self-managing, self-organizing… independent of other people’s actions.

I call it your access to your adult capacities.

When you drop the ball, when you don’t have a calendar where all the activities you need to maintain are present, when you need someone to remind you, when you need ME to be accountable for your actions, your access to your adult capacities is probably low, as low as 1%.

I just measured The Sight participants. those two who kept the capacity on, have access to their adult capacities at 10%. The rest: at 1%. One person also had a 7% measure, obviously it isn’t enough.

If and when you don’t have systems to keep projects, spiritual practices alive, you condemn yourself to depend on other people remembering for you… you are not an adult, you are a child.

As you can see raising your vibration, becoming a person who can live life you live and live it powerfully will depend on many things, but it will depend especially on your TLB, on your access to your adult capacities, and most importantly on your being able to keep The Sight capacity on… after I turn it on for you.

Could you turn it on for yourself? By looking long?

Muscletest says ‘no’.

These DNA capacities are turned on by epigenetic factors…

…that have to be forceful and sustained enough to actually work. And a ‘normal’ person cannot generate that… I was lucky, I was born with The Sight turned on. My father, who during the Holocaust was in a forced labor camp, had it turned on by extreme difficulty…

His unit of Jews was somewhere in Poland. It was winter. One morning during the forced march to the work site my father slipped and broke his ankle.

Instead of shooting him on the spot, the Nazi guard just left him there to freeze to death.

A local peasant picked my father up, half frozen, and took him to the hospital. To my father’s good fortune, the doctor was another Jew, who was my father schoolmate before the war. My father was 30 at this time.

This doctor fixed his ankle, and hid him until he could walk.

My father then borrowed a bucket and walked the 200 miles home… using the bucket as an excuse.. while the war was raging on.

No money, no support, enemy territory, my father needed to get sharper if he wanted to live. And he did.

This is how he turned on several DNA capacities… And then challenged himself continually till he died, to keep his capacities sharp and ready to fire.

I was lucky I inherited my father’s DNA capacities. My brothers inherited my mother’s…

So yeah, it is not likely that you’ll find yourself in a circumstance that unless you have The Sight capacity open, you’ll be dead… You avoid those circumstances like the plague.

This is not ‘operation money-suck’ as it may seem to you.

I am not suggesting that you pay me to turn The Sight capacity on for you.

If you don’t have an ‘existence system’… aka a structure to make sure that you don’t drop any plates… I’ll refuse to turn it on for you. No kidding.

Unless the activity is scheduled in your calendar, it doesn’t exist.

All activities fill the available time… so you’ll dilly dally doing whatever you are doing, because it is not in your calendar the spiritual practice that you said you’ll do to grow, to increase your TLB, to activate whole brain functioning, to keep yourself hydrated and in good shape, to eat according to your type, and you’ll throw up your arms and say: I didn’t have time. Or I forgot… or whatever garden variety horse sh*t you invent as an excuse.

You either have your results or you have your excuses. Never both.

My own growth began with a course “More time workshop” where we needed to buy a calendar and put all the things we said we would do, twice daily, into that calendar… among other things, but this is the main thing.

And keep the main goals for life in front of us while we scheduled.

I did that process, religiously, for six years, never dropping the ball.

I went from miserable architect to jobless to advertising sales person to magazine publisher owning my own magazine. In a year.

I would have never done that without this system.

Obviously today I don’t haul that big leather bound book around everywhere, although I still have it.

I do all my stuff on the computer.

I’ll teach this in a workshop… if you are interested.

How much? Haven’t decided. Email me or comment if you think you’d participate at whatever price I set… given that your life depends on it.

I’ll set the price when I’ll know who and what…

Before you say yay or nay, let me measure your important starting point measurements… so I can see where you need the most work.


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Three reasons you don’t learn… and end up ignorant in spite of the money and the time invested…

Three reasons you don’t learn… and end up ignorant in spite of the money and the time invested…

What phase of learning do you regularly skip that you end up ignorant? Never amounting to much…

… in spite of all the courses you’ve taken, all the books you’ve read, all the videos you’ve watched? I am not even talking about the books and courses that you bought but never went through… Just the ones where you thought you learned something…

We live in a world of instant. Instagram, Instacart, Facebook live… blah blah blah. Continue reading “Three reasons you don’t learn… and end up ignorant in spite of the money and the time invested…”

You are comfortable? you stopped growing, and started dying.

You are comfortable? you stopped growing, and started dying.

One of the principles I keep on repeating without it ever getting gotten, pretty much by anyone, is that YOU can’t tell how intelligent you are, and YOU can’t tell how intelligent a person you interact with is.

The general principle is
  • you can only see maybe ten points above your own IQ
  • you consider yourself more intelligent than you are
  • because are very dupeable… and you cannot see that if someone is a good ‘talker’, if they are entertaining, that doesn’t mean they are intelligent.

I recently measured the IQ of people in two of my programs. Continue reading “You are comfortable? you stopped growing, and started dying.”

The test if you are a person is how you treat others

The test if you are a person is how you treat others

Treat me like a person!

I didn’t realize that this is a big issue until I searched for picture to illustrate this article…

Almost a billion pages…

Your relationships… inside and outside… are they people, or are they cardboard cutouts?

Here is an idea most of you will be uncomfortable with:

People you have in your life are either there because

  • 1. they have to. They are family, co-workers, who don’t really have a choice about it. They are employees to where you shop, live, work…
  • 2. they want what you have or what you offer
  • 3. they want YOU… and therefore what you offer

Continue reading “The test if you are a person is how you treat others”

Why can a Mongol be well on meat, blood and milk?

Why can a Mongol be well on meat, blood and milk?

Some ethnicities live on a very limited variety of foods, a diet that doesn’t sound healthy… yet they are healthy, vibrant, smart, and vigorous.

Why can’t you? What would happen to you if you suddenly decided to eat like the Mongols in the 12th-14th Century, some 800 years ago?

I am going to entertain you with my tale… of no health…

I used to buy every expensive vitamin and supplement, and yet I wasn’t well. EVER. I really haven’t been well since high school.

All the supplement, superfoods, this and that did not make me well.

Nowadays I muscletest supplements before i take them, and most days I taken none, and occasionally I need one.

My kitchen counter has about a hundred bottles of the unneeded stuff.

What happened?

OK, if your IQ is not at least at or above average, stop reading here… you won’t understand. I don’t mean to be mean, I don’t mean to be rude, but your comprehension is limited, and what I am going to teach here is science. Continue reading “Why can a Mongol be well on meat, blood and milk?”

What is the reason people don’t do much with their lives?

What is the reason people don’t do much with their lives?

success-will-never-be-a-big-stepI am in the middle of the Water Energizing Challenge, and that gives me an unprecedented insight into people I didn’t want… 🙁

I am seeing something I didn’t expect, but that is what I am getting: stinginess.

Holding back, dealing thing out in thimbles instead of buckets, love, work, faith, service, energy, everything. For one’s own self, and for others, for life.

Result: No abundance.

Abundance is the opposite of stinginess. Abundance means abandon, flowing, largeness… there is more where that came from. Energy, love, effort, faith… joy!

Even how you laugh: hahaha… but I hear you holding back. Scarcity shows in every movement, everything you do. Continue reading “What is the reason people don’t do much with their lives?”

What a one minute exercise reveals about you?

What a one minute exercise reveals about you?

What do your emotions and behavior hide?

Your behaviors, your feelings and emotions are the tip of the iceberg, hiding the below water part, your attitudes. Your attitude to anything…

Here is the exercise: Close your eyes and imagine a bowl of cherries in front of you. It’s all for you. No competition. Or a box of chocolates if that fits you better.

How do you eat your cherries?

You reach out and take a cherry, or whatever you have in front of you.

  • Did you take the largest, most ripe cherry? The best of all the chocolates?
  • Did you take the puny little cherry first? The kind of chocolate you don’t really like?
  • Did you just take any of the cherries, without looking if it is big, plump, or puny?

The underlying attitude shows clearly on your behavior.
Continue reading “What a one minute exercise reveals about you?”

Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action

Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action

Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action, your beingness, your attitude… everything

‘Law of attraction’ teachers abuse this fact… and fleece you, dupe you, and infuse you with delusional beliefs. But regardless… it is true. Words create worlds. But not all words, and definitely not imprecise words…

In this article I’ll deal with that imprecision.

Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action, your beingness, your attitude… everything. Everything you can’t wrap some words around don’t exist for you.

Do you think it would be a good idea to use the words with some finesse, precision, instead of doing it with sloppiness?

Of course, how you do anything is how you do everything: if you are a sloppy person, your language will be sloppy too.
If you are stingy…
If you are a time waster…
If you are cowardly…
If you are a liar, a cheater, a bombastic promiser who never delivers…

You get the drift, I hope. Continue reading “Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action”