Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
If you could be transformed through reading articles, you’d be a unique and incredibly special human. this article is about how to become that special human
If you look through my site, I have more than 4000 articles. All meaty, full of information, 99.99% Tree of Life… my personal knowledge.
All free and all teaching you to have a life worth living, a life you live powerfully. Continue reading “How to get transformed into happy and fulfilled by simply reading articles?”
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Are you tired or are you weak?
I am starting to see why my students loved me, rallied for me back in 2012-2013-2014…
It’d been puzzling me… what did I do differently then?
I had a private call with a brand new client from Australia, and it was a video call on zoom (don’t ask… first time zoom user myself!) so I could see her, and the changes the conversation was creating in her. Continue reading “Are you tired or are you weak? Revealing the root cause…”
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Harmony, joy can be destroyed by a consistently dissonant voice
I had been enjoying the New Tricks BBS TV show on Amazon Prime… until yesterday.
It’s an ensemble show, or better said: it used to be.
Ensemble means that every participant is there for both themselves and for the show. Desire to receive for the sake of sharing. Not a dissonant chord.
Then one person, for reason only they know, decided that he is more important then the show and the others, and the thing falls apart.
You can hear it before they even know it themselves… someone playing out of tune. Continue reading “What makes a good thing go to sh!t?”
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Love yourself: easier said than done.Love yourself, self-love is your two selves loving each other. How does that come about? Simple: through integrity. Integrity is an inside job: between you and you. As your integrity grows, your self-love, self-appreciation grows, and your life starts blossoming. Continue reading “You want to love yourself, but it is hard: you know you are full of crap”
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No Efforting **Efforting describes times that you are not in the flow of either your business or your personal life. It’s when you are slugging through the day and dreading tasks that you don’t feel connected with. It’s when you are pushing yourself to do things that you aren’t ‘feeling’. It’s the Have To list of life…
Yesterday in the core group meeting, that happened to be also our Getting Guidance from our Future Self, something magical and very educational thing happened. Continue reading “What is the difference between forcing and certainty?”
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Some days start out like this… I don’t know if you can relate… I oversleeping and suffer from the resulting depression
Today I overslept. Some fascinating dream was more important for me to continue watching than getting up.
It’s now three hours later, and I am till groggy, unmotivated, and I have a fear that is playing hide and seek with me: I can’t really see what it is afraid of. Continue reading “Depressed from oversleeping… and recovery”
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Do you have the fighting spirit? Have you ever accessed your second wind?
I am sure you were immediately thinking of fighting, and not spirit… and you are about to hang up… and go do something mundane and maybe even boring to calm down your spirit that wants to come alive… ‘go back to sleep. Nothing to see here’
The fighting spirit is the spirit fighting for more life, more aliveness, more joy, more love, more everything. For you.
The factions fighting and bickering and backbiting and slandering online and in your groups are not spirit… they are all fear based… and I would say death-based, not life based. Not for themselves either.
It’s a smokescreen to hide that they are about death… theirs.
So let’s talk, instead, about the fighting spirit, that is all for you, about you, and you have, probably, only a fleeing memory of when you last saw it.
The fighting spirit is what gives you the second wind. Continue reading “Second wind, second chance”
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One of the few things I need to be aware and manage diligently is to not slip into hate and disgust about things or people. And when I do slip, to go from hate to love with them.
One of my ‘favorite’ ways to slip into hate and disgust has been to gossip about things or people… whom otherwise I love and cherish, but something about them irks me.
The solution is to make room for the imperfection, the part that irks me, and then I can love them, warts and all.
The secret is to rant first and accept second.
Continue reading “Going from hate and disgust to feeling good about yourself. From hate to love”
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Ask and it is given… But if that were so easy and simple, there would not be a whole system of thought, Kabbalah, receiving in Hebrew…
You pray and you think you are effectively asking for what you want. You believe that you will get it… but only 1% of the asks are given…
This article is about why only 1% of what you ask for is given, no matter who you ask from. Yourself, someone else, or some deity.
In yesterday’s core group huddle I started to see something that is so hidden and so hideous that even when people see it, they don’t see it.
What is it?
You don’t, you can’t see what you want and why (context) so what you ask for is vague, fuzzy, and not going to get given. Continue reading “Can the “Ask and it is given” work for you?”
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How does change fit into the Anna Karenina Principle, or the principle said in another way: the method of taking away what doesn’t contribute to happiness to make your life better?
Remember: the Anna Karenina Principle says: All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
The principle implies that the unhappy families have one or more things that make them unhappy, things happy families don’t have… That happiness is simple, while unhappiness is complicated.
In this article I will look at change and how the Anna Karenina principle, of taking away what doesn’t contribute can be done in the context of change. Continue reading “Taking away what doesn’t contribute: the Anna Karenina Principle”
