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There are two planes where existence can be experienced: the horizontal plane and the vertical plane.
They are not different places, they are different dimensions of the same thing, different ways to look at them, from different places in reality. Continue reading “The bucket of crabs… Are you allowed to grow?”
It’s Monday and it’s raining.
The perfect weather for what I need to do…
I downloaded the Days Of Power energy yesterday and it knocked me on my butt. 1
Honestly, I forgot how strong these energies are: I had taken a break from them for a while.
So this article is about the magic of growing. Or what it takes to be someone who can grow, someone who does grow, someone who, through growth, becomes someone more, better, closer to who they can become…
So here you go:
Even while I was up there, I was starting to get intolerant, irritated, overwhelmed, and raw.
Then I yelled at everyone who, by now, were getting used to me being calm, collected, magnanimous, except yesterday I wasn’t. Continue reading “I downloaded the Days Of Power energy yesterday and it knocked me on my butt”
True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Wrote Rick Warren in The Purpose-Driven Life, where it appears as part of Day 19, “Cultivating Community.” 2
When you have “thinking of yourself” block or filter what you are looking at, you end up in a small box that is all about you.
There is no joy there.
I just finished my Sunday call… unfortunately I forgot to turn on the recorder… it was all about this principle, about how different people have a different amount of time spent thinking of themselves, and how the amount of misery they experience differs, very consistently, accordingly.
Different soul corrections place different amount of emphasis on “it is all about you”, so each of us gets a different start in life… some are more about it than others.
Want to know yours? 
You are born with potentials but no skills. Even breathing is a skill you need to learn.
Skills are the atoms of actions. Each action, like a molecule is built of atoms, each activity is made of parts that we call skills. Some actions are complex, others are quite simple… mirroring the diversity of the physical reality.
Atoms are building blocks… If you don’t have atoms, you can’t build anything… If you don’t have skills you can’t build actions. No actions… no success… And no good life.
No food, no money, no paper, no house, no life…
Why you don’t have many skills? Why don’t you get busy developing skills… gathering skills? Why don’t you fill your ingredient box, your pantry, your tool box with what you may need for the good life?
Why are you waiting for opportunities to start learning anything? Why are you looking for your life’s purpose before you’d do anything?
Because you think it is a waste of time to dig a well, unless you are already thirsty.
I could say that this is true about every person I encounter online, but I would be lying. I have met so far 10 people for whom it wasn’t true… 10 out of thousands.
So what is underneath this attitude? Continue reading “I don’t think you understand how humans are ‘designed’!”
How your integrity, or the lack of it is one of the keys to your raising your vibration, or not raising it…
Yesterday we had a last session of the course, From Upset to Communication.
The call was nearly all about integrity… or the lack of it.
The most significant ways are
We all tend to know when we actually say something that is a lie…
We rarely know when we lie because we don’t know what is the truth
And we almost never realize that withholding the truth is the worst thing we can do for ourselves. It is a lie by omission.
I have written about, and taught the inner dynamic of perpetration-withhold before, but it seems that it is never enough. I have 3000 articles on this site, and no person can read them all… We are talking about more than 30 full size book worth of articles… that is a lot.
Continue reading “Where there is anger there is a lie underneath…”
If you want to be successful, you need to start where you are.
But if you don’t know where you are, or mistakenly think you are somewhere else than where you actually are, you will never get to where you want to get to… NEVER.
This includes your knowledge level, your skill level, your experience level, and your level of consciusness or your vibrational frequency.
The only reliable way I know is to tell someone’s vibration accurately is to muscletest while truly connected to Source, by a person whose vibration is past ego… on or above the level of unconditional love.
That doesn’t mean you can’t have clues…So that you can get a ballpark estimate of where you are or where another person is…
People throw around the words: self-expression, but what is the self? I have never found a person who knows what it means… and if it means what THEY mean.
Most people look how you express yourself not what it is you express…
Meaning: I am letting my hair down… I am loud and obnoxious, I am funny, I am demanding… these are all how expressions.
This article is about “what” not “how”…
There are two selves, and the reason life doesn’t work for most of us is because the two selves are not connected in any way.
Self in the expression of the higher self, is the evolved self. The self Shakespeare means: To thine own self be true.
Continue reading “Self-expression: what is the Self you are expressing?”
Lack of humility and fixed mindset are also synonymous.
From time to time I run experiments where I work with one student beyond what they pay for, to test out a methodology I hope will be instructive and will work for most students.
Most people have a fixed mindset.
What does fixed mindset have to do with skills?
Unfortunately a whole lot. Why unfortunately? Because if you have fixed mindset, you somehow, magically, think that skills are innate and you don’t have to learn them.
But neither knowledge, nor skills are innate: humans were designed to be shaped by their own actions primarily. That means: your genetic heritage counts about 10% of who you are, and 90% comes from environmental influences, including your own efforts, attitudes, and actions.
One will say: bummer. Another will say: thank god.
And both will be right…
Continue reading “I just distinguished something about humility: Humility and growth mindset are synonymous.”
What if the law of attraction is just another way to keep you duped, unthinking, unproductive, and a slave?Just think with me, please:
I am going to filter the Law of Attraction through my own life, my own experiences instead of giving you made-up examples, ok?
OK, let us track this “conspiracy” I call “the law of attraction” from now on backwards.
Question: who is attracted to the law of attraction? The one that has self-confidence or the one without? Continue reading “The dumbing down of the planet: the law of attraction”
One of my students is displaced because of brush and forest fires.
He is asking about routines and resting. And if adaptability and awareness is enough to compensate for the loss of routines.
I can hear as the coin drops for me…
I have been pondering for years what is the cause of loss of vibration, loss of coherence with holidays, vacations, long weekends.
Maybe we just hit on paydirt.
I have found that orderly living results in an increased level of coherence.
For those of you that don’t know: coherence means: nerve endings fire in unison… not at randomly.
Six horses working in unison can move mountains. Six horses all insisting on going at their own innate rhythm won’t even move a cart on wheels.
You, your life, your energies, your family, your teams can be coherent or can be incoherent.
We could also see coherent as smooth.
Continue reading “Routines, coherence, vacations, and your success… what is the connection?”
