Summary: worry, fear, opinions makes us stuck in the future or in the past, and we completely miss the present, where life happens. At best worry, fear, opinions just make us miserable. At worst what we don’t handle in the present kills us… Either way, we miss life, we miss our power… What a waste Continue reading “Why Are You Attracted to Bad News? Unhook yourself”
Category: clarity
The art and science of calling the shots…
Context: A thing or idea is better distinguished by what it is not than by what it is.
Well distinguished vs. poorly distinguished behavior
For example, the 10 commandments (from the Old Testament): some of the commandments are worded just right, you know exactly what to do and what not to do.
For example,
- Honor thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee. It sounds really great… but what does honoring exactly mean?As many answers as many people… not clear.
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The “thing” that other teachers, religions, gurus call Ego, what do we call it in the Original Design system?
What is the “thing” that other teachers, religions, gurus call Ego, in the Original Design system?
I just had a flash of insight: one of my students who has been suffering with digestive issues forever stopped coming to coaching calls. It began with me directing her to a different type of eating, the type of eating that has made the most difference for me: being a Separator or Alternating according to the Human Design Institute.
I felt hurt, I felt bruised, I felt betrayed. I looked and I felt that my pride was hurt. Or, using the terminology of “other” teachers, my “ego” was hurt.
But we use Ego, in “my” system for the force, the energy, the team-mate that is part of the team that you are, that is your friend if and when you keep up the communication with it. So it doesn’t get bruised, or hurt…
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The Law of Choices, or do you really have a choice?
I am still dealing with the attacks, I am still working out this whole theory of humanity consisting of different groups having a vastly different set of DNA’s exactly in the areas that distinguish human from other species… in the area of their humanity or the lack of it. Continue reading “The Law of Choices, or do you really have a choice?”
Can you love and hate, have compassion/contempt?
Choosing, caring, designer energies…
On Sunday we went back to Standard Time, and it’s Tuesday. The time change always whacks me out, it takes me weeks to get back my bearings.
I slept in today. I missed the garbage pickup. I have a sore throat. …but had a dream that brought up some issues that are worth talking about.
Caring is not a feeling. Caring is choosing
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How can YOU connect to YOUR Soul? And when you do…
How can YOU connect to YOUR Soul? And when you do, what do you ask for? Are you eating soup with a fork?
What is the Soul? Where is the seat of the Soul? How can YOU connect to YOUR Soul? What does the Soul do? Continue reading “How can YOU connect to YOUR Soul? And when you do…”
What is the meaning of life? What is the meaning of YOUR life? Holding your crap together anchors you to your crap
What is the purpose of life? What is the purpose of YOUR life?
I have been having recurring dreams for about two months now. Disturbing dreams, involved, frightening, confusing, entertaining dreams. All around the same futuristic theme: time travel: going back and changing stuff so the outcome is different. Each time the effort backfired in the dream. Until last night I went back far enough that I touched the moment where it all went wrong…
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When I allow myself to feel my negative feeling…
A lot of people seem to wonder how they can avoid feeling negative emotions… They try to block them, get busy, take medication, self-medicate (alcohol and drugs) but the solution, as you will see, is counter-intuitive.
One of the Path Coaching students writes: Continue reading “When I allow myself to feel my negative feeling…”
The beginning is delayed but not by much….
A beginning is the time for taking the most delicate care that the balances are correct,
wrote science fiction author Frank Herbert.
Sometimes you need to go through extreme hardship to learn what you need to learn.
In the normal course of events, as soon as I have something, I announce it on these pages, and that’s that… the beginning is not taken delicate care of… and I don’t worry about the balances. Continue reading “The beginning is delayed but not by much….”
The path to become a Human Being – Part 2:
If you haven’t, please read Part 1 of this article first. It will make more sense… it will set the context.
The missing godliness are called virtues.
Living virtuously is a daily struggle, a daily battle. No one, no matter how high their vibration, is ever done. Not a Buddha, not a Jesus, not anyone.
The two problems I see in this “business” of raising your vibration:
- You want happiness, joy, fulfillment, the exact way you want pleasure: food, sex, the breeze on your face. You don’t want to earn it, you just want to get it. You may want to buy it, but happiness, joy, fulfillment is not something you can buy. But there are plenty of gurus, doctors, healers, teachers, that will accommodate your slothful desire:
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