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Category: clarity
I have been struggling for two days to write an article…
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This is not normal for me… and I have been a little worried.
Yesterday in my 3-wishes workshop I did the exercise that drives up what you can’t see in the world, so much so, that you don’t believe it is there, you don’t believe that you can have it.
It was hope for me.
I am not sure if it’s the election, if it’s the funny videos I watched about Trump, if it is my last Office Hours experience… I don’t know but suddenly I had no hope, I saw no possibility for humankind, or for me.
It snuck up on me.
Maybe observing my teacher going berserk on hate… Maybe me hating him for it.
Bad stuff has a tendency to sneak up on you, and destroy you, like cancer. By the time you notice, it is almost late. I see that with clients… the earlier you catch it the faster and easier it is to melt it. Continue reading “I have been struggling for two days to write an article…”
What irks me most about entrepreneur wannabes today? Or, by the same token, guru wannabes?
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First things first: who is an entrepreneur?
The most important characteristic of an entrepreneur is the fact that they take on something. Voluntarily. Mostly to take something from A to B, from state A to state B… because they say B is better.
So Edmund, the Count of Monte Christo was an entrepreneur, if I remember the story I read when I was around 10. He dug himself out of a prison on an island. He gets and find some hidden treasure, and avenges the wrongs done to him. Continue reading “What irks me most about entrepreneur wannabes today? Or, by the same token, guru wannabes?”
What is your ‘one thing’? Not a laundry list!
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I got an email this morning, from one of MY coaches, Troy, asking what is the one thing I am known for… or maybe should known for?
He didn’t say it that way, but maybe should have.
He asks:
° What is it that you are KNOWN for?
° What is it that you WANT to be known for?
° What is it that will bring customers BEATING DOWN your doors?
° What is that ONE thing for you?
This is an amazing set of questions that can create incredible clarity… if you also add: the one thing needs to be something that you are so good at that it has become enjoyable.
Don’t be known for something you don’t enjoy. Continue reading “What is your ‘one thing’? Not a laundry list!”
Emotional detox? What can it do for you??
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Before you can go up, you need to go down! Just like in building a house.
Because unless you clear off the “stuff” and then dig deep to know what’s under the top soil, your house will be warped and collapse in a hurry, often while you are building it.
For most of you this is really bad news, because you are hellbent on staying phony happy, phony loving, phony well… delusional high self-esteem-ed, and you are unwilling to even look at what is real. But what’s real is real, and if you ignore it it will bite you in the a-s-s. No compassion, no looking, just continuing what isn’t working, and never will work is stupid… Here, I said it. Stupid. Continue reading “Emotional detox? What can it do for you??”
Rob Yourself Wealthy. It cost me $200 to get this
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The secret of correct growth, for people, trees, a business, is the correct boundaries and restrictions, directing the energy into a restricted channel.
Correct growth requires energy, a lot of energy…
Without restriction or with incorrect boundaries the growth will be limited, or along the wrong lines.
But in today’s day and age restrictions, outside restrictions are harder to come by… Continue reading “Rob Yourself Wealthy. It cost me $200 to get this”
Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action
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Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action, your beingness, your attitude… everything
‘Law of attraction’ teachers abuse this fact… and fleece you, dupe you, and infuse you with delusional beliefs. But regardless… it is true. Words create worlds. But not all words, and definitely not imprecise words…
In this article I’ll deal with that imprecision.
Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action, your beingness, your attitude… everything. Everything you can’t wrap some words around don’t exist for you.
Do you think it would be a good idea to use the words with some finesse, precision, instead of doing it with sloppiness?
Of course, how you do anything is how you do everything: if you are a sloppy person, your language will be sloppy too.
If you are stingy…
If you are a time waster…
If you are cowardly…
If you are a liar, a cheater, a bombastic promiser who never delivers…
You get the drift, I hope. Continue reading “Words create your emotions, your reality, your next action”
Unless you know what growth is, you have the illusion
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When I suggest that someone should grow, it is obvious to me that they have no idea what it means, or how to grow, or what it feels like.
The reason I measure someone’s accurate vocabulary is to see to what degree words mean for them what they actually mean, to what degree they have an actual experience about the meaning of words. Continue reading “Unless you know what growth is, you have the illusion”
Nowadays everyone wants to know their eating style
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This COVID nonsense has caused a lot of change in how people live… one of them is being on the seefood diet… eating anything that looks like food…
I myself packed on 20 lbs before I could first slow it down and reverse it. 20 lbs when you are 73 years old is a lot of pounds… by the way. I have less muscles to burn it off… and the other non-beneficial side-effect: now I want to eat more than I was eating in ‘peacetime’… all working against me.
And when you are on a ‘seefood diet’ there are other problems as well.
Your body is not willing or not able to digest completely what you eat. Continue reading “Nowadays everyone wants to know their eating style”
What level is your emotional intelligence? Your EQ…
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I was lead to an old article of mine. Controversial, and I bet not very useful for most people…
I wrote it in 2012. I have grown a lot since then.
In the article I was attempting to guide you to detect truth value, estimate the vibration teachers and products… without muscletesting.
In the article I was making the same mistake I have been making, all my life: supposing that you can see patterns, that you can see behind the curtain, that you can see more than you actually can.
Emotional intelligence, the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically, seeing emotional patterns, being able to detect lies, not by rigid made up rules, like in law enforcement, but to actually see something that another is trying to hide, or someone trying to make airs, or such… requires a lot higher emotional and overall intelligence than most of us have.
Continue reading “What level is your emotional intelligence? Your EQ…”
