Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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The mind hates uncertainty.It.drives.itself.nuts to answer a question. Any question. Asked or unasked.
If you paid attention: it is almost always in search mode… trying to answer a question.
That’s why it is so busy. Continue reading “13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity”
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There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.There is always a price. We are looking at laughter by the criterion: who pays the price.
Continue reading “What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?”
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What is the real meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you and your entrepreneurial aspirations?
Without understanding that life is a collection of interactive systems, without understanding the seesaw principle, without being able to create, manage, and tweak systems. your life will work as it has always worked. just barely… Continue reading “Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors”
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Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?
Worthless other than being boring? lol…
They bore the heck out of me… but that is my problem, I guess.
The reason they are worthless because they talk about what to do, but they never teach about consolidation.
My teacher in creating courses taught that the first session needs to give people a quick big win… so they get excited and stay in the course. Continue reading “Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?”
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You can follow me down the rabbit hole. You can do it… The only question is: will you think it worth your while?
I know I have said it before, lots of times, but I will say it again, but slightly differently this time. So bear with me: the reward will be unbelievable!
Said in another way:
When something isn’t working (the way you expected it to work), you can be sure that there is something you don’t know or can’t see.
Unfortunately to you, when you hear this sentence, you will never think about your mindset. You’ll never think that your thinking is wrong. That your life philosophy is wrong. Continue reading “Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?””
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The drama triangle… switch up the roles!
The drama triangle is a useful model inside which you can examine, re-live, and heal any conflict.
Conflict is a nice name where what one person/ one company/ one group/ one country’s point of view, self-interest doesn’t agree with some other person’s or group’s self-interest.
It’s normal. But it is doubly normal for children. Small children. A conflict with the parents. Continue reading “An upset 3 year old is running your life?”
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The Unconditional Love Activator is a simple activator. If you can allow it to work on you, it can silence the crew that is protesting. It can silence the ‘Precious I’ who you consider yourself to be, and allow the two selves to connect.
Continue reading “The Self, the spinal wave, intention, will, responsibility”
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If you ever tried to meditate. If you are a ‘meditator’. And if the idea of meditation brings up bile to your throat… like for me.
OK who else? Oh, those who couldn’t give a shriveled nut for the idea of mediation… so all people…
The only thing meditation wants you to do is to look within. You spend almost all your life looking outward, and have no idea about what is inside. Continue reading “The purpose of the Reality Challenge is to find your Self”
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Growth feels good… People who grow experience being fully in life, in a dance with life…
Growth feels good… and yet, most of the people I know are either stagnating because they don’t put themselves in a situation where they need to grow, or they put themselves in the courses and seminars and coaching programs to grow, but they don’t grow because …
Continue reading “What is Natural Growth and how to Accomplish it”
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I wrote this article about ten years ago.
Since then I have done a lot of work in the area of intelligence. This article is a lot more mainstream (meaning: wrong) than I like it, so I am in the middle of writing yet another article.
The new article will take out the mystery, why you aren’t able to accomplish what is within your power to accomplish… And what to do so that you can. Continue reading “How realistic are your expectations? of yourself, your life”
