Do you want someone else to clean up the mess you made?

siberian-shamanI had an interesting interaction with a client. She has been getting sessions from a “Siberian Shamana”, dead giveaway, by the way, that the person is a fraud…

Anyway, this client was riddled with attachments, which I needed to remove several times, because she insisted that it wasn’t the “shamana” that put them on her.

Finally, she had to see the truth.

The next step was: she asked if she could send me an encrypted email… about other people. Members of her family that had session with this shamana… and are probably also full of attachments.

After some consideration I refused the request.

I wrote:

it would do you a world of good if you talked to them and shared what you found out. And take the blame, or whatever it takes… instead of trying to fix them without them knowing it.

It is more of the same: being pretentious. I won’t help you with this, sorry, This is your growing journey, and I won’t keep you small, and stop you from growing by keeping your reputation protected.

So, what is happening here, and how this can be useful to you:

scared-babyAs long as you cannot face up to the damage and harm you caused, well-meaning or not, you are still a child. That is probably most of you.

I remember when I first consider that “mother” isn’t coming to rescue me… It was horrible, but freeing at the same time.

I did something stupid, and the only thing that was going to work is to bear the consequences… ugh. I did, I lived, and I am here to tell the tale… it made me stronger. Some people forgave me, some didn’t. The person I harmed the most forgave me. Onlookers didn’t… hm… go figure… lol.

Anyway, the bottom line is: if you want to grow up, pull responsibility toward yourself, and resolve the issues, yourself. Don’t ask for help, sympathy, or rescue, and you will start climbing up the vibrational scale.

We are so used to hide, lie, cover up, blame someone else (including the system, our upbringing, etc.) that no wonder we are a society of little kids covering our eyes hoping that it means no one can see us.

You see you… and therein lies the issue. You see yourself, and you don’t like what you see. You at the minimum dislike yourself, at the maximum, you hate yourself.

How is that going to work? Not… EVER.

You won’t be able to look at yourself, and you’ll continue directing all your attention outward, to the world that can’t fulfill you… while the emptiness inside is killing you.

Now you know… What are you going to do about it?

I muscletested this video… it is not harmful.

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar