A guru I used to know, had a conversation with members of his staff, when they wanted to marry someone.
In fact, he saw the couple.
The conversation’s purpose was to find out if the relationship can last or not.
The questions the guru asked of each half of the couple:
- what is wrong with the other person
- can you be (can you love them, tolerate them, live with them forever) with what’s wrong with them?
