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He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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The ‘hidden’ attitude that eats your lunch. And leaves you clueless as if to what happenedYesterday I was on a group coaching call where people had a chance to get on the ‘hot seat’, meaning they could lay out their issue and get coaching.
This is a business coaching group I am a part of. Continue reading “The ‘hidden’ attitude that eats your lunch…”
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I am having a strange experience. It is pleasant. Bubbling. Stimulating. Lovely.
I am not the first one, not even the only one to teach what I teach. I am not alone. This knowledge of the human condition and what works and what doesn’t is holographic.
I am competitive. Maybe it’s my soul correction (34). I like to be the best, the first, the only one. And totally counter to that: I like to know that I could have partners and we could soar together.
I found a ‘soulmate’ who teaches a lot of what I teach to a narrow segment of people: who can see that in life you get what you negotiate for successfully. Jim Camp.
Continue reading “What would be possible if you could choose to be not needy?”
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Being needy, being want-y is low vibration… about 100 on the vibrational scale.
I order my grocery through Instacart. This way I never have to leave my house, I never have to see or get near another person. I ‘blame’ the pandemic… lol.
But today, when I stood behind my front door, waiting for the Instacart delivery person, Angel to leave my grocery at the door, I shouted: ‘Thank you Angel’, and then I started to sob. Continue reading “Being Needy keeps you from getting what you want?”
I just had an insight. I saw something I had never seen, even though it was right in front of my eyes.
The source of neediness.
First let’s look at what is a need and what is not…
We need food and shelter and clothes to cover our need. We may need a community, and air and water. Not much more.
Margoczi says we also need to fulfill our own expectations of ourselves and other people’s expectations of us… Maybe. I am not sure. Maybe to the extent that we can carry our own weight… but not more.
But there are certain things we, as children, thought we should have gotten, and we didn’t, and now we pursue it, relentlessly, at our own detriment.
What kind of things? Continue reading “Whole and complete… and neediness. Completion”
