Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
Originally posted 2008-11-15 08:02:53.
Most “do-it-for-you” programs don’t work. Why? Are they bad? Are they fakes, thieves, or is there something in our design as human beings that prevents us from taking advantage of these opportunities. This is what this article is about. Surprising. Documented. True. Continue reading “No One CAN Do It FOR You… And Even if They Could…”
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Until you get, in your bones, in your everywhere that we are in this all together, you won’t be able to look at the world differently
Last night I had a really tough time falling asleep. I was alert, my brain working overtime.
As often, I started to download the Heaven on Earth bundle… consciously, paying attention to how it lands, all 48 energies with which one resists how it is. Continue reading “The Soul, The Ego, The body… all want something different”
What is the Ego’s reward for getting you to the Promised Land?
So, I have been observing that many people who seemingly were interested in what I have to say now aren’t.
So what are they suddenly interested in? And I am especially interested in where they go where they actually spend their attention and their money.
I am turning on my X-ray eyes, so to say, and look. Continue reading “What is the Ego’s role in getting you to the Promised Land?”
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Egomind? Well, it is just a name… even though it seems that we do have an ego, and we do have a mind.
So let’s see: neither you can find if you cut a person open.
But if you had a sensitive enough instrument, like a true empath, and if you knew what you are looking for, you would find that there is a very strong energy over the chest in the shape of a triangle sitting on one of its sides. Continue reading “One of the jobs of the Egomind is to resist change”
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My most influential teachers teach new expectations through invalidating the ones that create a life of misery.Ben Settle is one of those teachers.
I subscribed to his newsletter and then quit it after a year or two. Why? because for a time he was more interested in world building and world domination than what concerned me more: a healthy business that served me. And he was more political than I could stomach… so I quit.
I had benefited from my subscription… How? I managed to double my monthly income and at the same time reduced the amount of work it took. I also doubled my self-respect… hm. Continue reading “My most influential teachers teach new expectations”
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Can the much maligned ego be the answer to your prayers? Praying to get unstuck?Ego is a strong driving force… if it is encouraged to be so.
It is also a strong anchoring force. Continue reading “Is the Ego a friend or a foe? Let’s look!”
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I spent the last two hours working on the page that explains what the starting point measurement numbers mean about you.
And, almost predictably, today’s Monday Morning Memo by Roy H. Williams addresses some of those. No coincidences in the world… if you have a wide enough cone of vision you’ll know that.
Yesterday, Sunday I spent 90 minutes on my Sunday call with Mike, a dude who is about as different from me as a person can get, politically, spiritually, intellectually, in every way.
It got really bad during the Trump administration… and hadn’t I managed to change myself, it would be really bad now.
I am neither liberal nor conservative. I care about everyone… but I am not into giving favors to anyone. Neither the needy nor the greedy. About 10% of the USA population is like me… Caught in the middle. Continue reading “Is ego physical? Energetic? Spiritual? Woowoo? WTF is ego?”
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The goal of this article is to show you why you haven’t been able to grow, and how to unstuck yourself: a new methodology.
The size of your projects is the size of your life. Your New Year’s resolution is a project. big or small shows the size of your life.
If you are not working on it, it is not a project. For it to be a project, you need to work on it. Otherwise it is just a fantasy.
The size of the people your project helps is the size of your world.
Giving away money that you didn’t earn isn’t a project.
Yesterday we had the 3-wishes workshop. It’s a fun little exercise. But we didn’t do it for fun. Most fun exercises have hidden huge learnings: about you, about the size of your world and the size of your life.
What does it have to do with a New year resolution? Patience, I’ll make them connect later. First you want to look at the ingredients… there are no jumps in reality, and when you jump, you do that in your imagination, and your results will be also in your imagination, not in reality… How is that for a learning, learning why your New Year Resolutions haven’t panned out thus far… You did jumps in it.
Projects are like building a ladder and climbing it to the fulfillment… not a jump. Continue reading “How to make New Year’s Resolutions succeed? of how to unstuck yourself for good?”
I was looking for good pictures to go with this topic, and I was struck to what degree people think that what they have as their past is what happened in the past.
100% of what happened, what you say happened, what you remember happened, actually didn’t happen. You only remember what you said about it… the meanings, the interpretations. Not what happened in reality.
Getting to see what is in reality, what was in reality, takes work, and a serious change in how you look.
This article will be most useful for my students, who have been doing that work for a long time, some of them as long as a full year…
So if what I am saying doesn’t make a lot of sense… consider that it should not… You don’t have the foundation, the skills, the capacities that only practice can give you… Real practice. Deliberate practice.
If you want the results my students are getting, you need to do the work my students are doing… in the Playground. Day in and day out… Continue reading “How to disappear all of your past… so you can have an empty future?”
Your expectations and your disappointments reveal to you and to everyone who knows anything about the unconscious worldview that makes sure you are miserable.
Or a car, or an electric mixer. Mechanistic, there for your service.
Even the evil people, religion, law of attraction, manifestation people teach that… with one little twist: if you are good, then the machine will turn on and spit out what you wanted.
So these people with their little twist make it your own fault if and when it doesn’t work.
But what you think about the world and the way the world works are very different.
And you go from expectation to disappointment, anger, dismay, disgust… according to your temperament. Continue reading “The life of a pinball… or Your expectations and your disappointments”
