Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

Most people secretly say: do as I say not as I do

Am I one of them? How about you?

You are inauthentic unless you are true to yourself…

…or what is the difference between your unless and my unless?

I am looking at the article about my way of accepting new clients or not, and I am going to ask the question you don’t think to ask, or have asked and already answered wrong.

Listen up, this is tricky and subtle… you may miss it! Continue reading “Most people secretly say: do as I say not as I do”

For you everything is the same as everything else…

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For you everything is the same as everything else…

Or said in a different way: you can’t tell the forest from the trees.
You can’t tell your ass from a hole in the ground
You can’t see the big picture

All mean the same: you can’t see distinction.

When you are a student, you use the jargon, but you don’t see what it means. You use it thinking that saying the word means you can see it, you can be guided by it…

I took to distinctions like fish takes to water.

Because of that it never made sense to me what’s the problem. Continue reading “For you everything is the same as everything else…”

Why is it harmful to live in your own world? Bad for you?

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Let me set down this first: worldly success completely depends on your ability to bilocate… In essence the size of your awareness…

Whether you bilocate like the light bulb or multitasking, or are able to be both places at the same time is just a little bit different… both work.

What am I talking about? Continue reading “Why is it harmful to live in your own world? Bad for you?”

Why can’t you love yourself? Any idea what’s missing?

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Why can’t you love yourself? Any ideas what’s missing? Prepare to be shocked…

I woke up and it was almost 6 am. My plan is to get up between 3 and 5 am…

I wasn’t upset. I didn’t think I should have gotten up earlier.

The question here is to ask: who is driving my life? My shoulds or me?

Reactive… Continue reading “Why can’t you love yourself? Any idea what’s missing?”

Do you live your life without preparation? Winging it?

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There is a saying ‘Always be selling’, but I think ‘Always be preparing’ is a better saying.

It doesn’t just apply to everyone, it also is more useful.

There’s a quote famously attributed to Alexander Graham Bell: ‘BEFORE anything else, preparation is the key to success.’

Today’s parents, today’s people don’t think they are unprepared. I have read about a woman who homeschools her children, and decided that they don’t need to learn basic maths… Continue reading “Do you live your life without preparation? Winging it?”

Homo sapiens, homo victimus, human being…

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There is an interesting human trait: when something doesn’t go as we expect it, we first, and some of us forever, blame something or someone else, other than own that we did it ourselves.

We could say that this humanity, this version of humanity could be safely called ‘homo victimus’ more accurately than be called homo sapiens… we don’t seem to be wise. Continue reading “Homo sapiens, homo victimus, human being…”

It is hard to read the label when you are inside the bottle.

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OK, Sophie, but what is the bottle you are in? And what is the label?

Most everything that is about you is the bottle and most everything that would clue you in why you are stuck, why you don’t feel well, why your life works the way it works is the label.

To read the label, you need get outside of the bottle… while you are also in it.

I call it bilocation… but not in the physical or esoteric sense…

I mean it in the intellectual sense. Continue reading “It is hard to read the label when you are inside the bottle.”

But what about fear? What shall I do if I am always afraid?

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Alexander the Great supposedly said:

Through every generation of the human race there has been a constant war, a war with fear. Those who have the courage to conquer it are made free and those who are conquered by it are made to suffer until they have the courage to defeat it, or death takes them.

Now, looking at it from the viewpoint of the fixed mindset versus the growth mindset you can see that the fixed mindset promises you to keep you safe. Continue reading “But what about fear? What shall I do if I am always afraid?”

What kind of soil are you for the seeds I plant?

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Who is listening? Who is listening that you are unwilling or unable to move towards your dreams?

Warning: without the concept in this article, you can read 100 books, take 100 seminars, and they will not matter… chances are you have never heard about this concept.

In this article I am writing about a little known aspect of life… I couldn’t even find pictures for it… I will be using a gardening analogy,

What kind of soil are you?

Continue reading “What kind of soil are you for the seeds I plant?”

Widespread incompetence, insufficiency, abominable service

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What is the reason of the widespread incompetence, insufficiency and abominable service companies provide?

And I mean big companies, Amazon, Google, Twitter, Clickbank, Spectrum, nearly any company I deal with…

I am going to use muscletesting to answer most of the questions…

But before I go large, I am going to look at some of the things I can see, even though I am a shut-in.

Case study one:

I live in an apartment in a two-family home. Continue reading “Widespread incompetence, insufficiency, abominable service”