Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

Do you have boundaries? Do you even NEED boundaries?

One of the issues some of my clients come up with are about setting boundaries.

Preventing abuse, being used, being seduced from the path to do what other people want them to do.

This is not an easy question… but you can get closer to actually being free to be yourself and have the room, the energy, the clarity to move in the direction you want to move.

Because humans, their DNA is, on this evolutionary level, act on an either you or me chassis… Which means: people are going to pull you off your path, take up your time, and likely give nothing worthwhile in return.

The complainers, the needy, the wanty, the superior, the sick, etc. Or even the cat picture posters, the tik-tok video producers, the news channels, the enthusiastic, the cultish…

Almost everybody… Continue reading “Do you have boundaries? Do you even NEED boundaries?”

1 thing, 1 principle, 1 distinction: turn your life around

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One of the crucial steps in the 67 steps, is Step #26. It’s about having both belts and suspenders so you always have something to hold up your pants… your life… your health… And your relationships… your livelihood. That step is a step that has been paying me dividends for years now.

Having both a best and a suspender is a distinction…

It began when I first heard it. In 2016. Continue reading “1 thing, 1 principle, 1 distinction: turn your life around”

How to turn your life around under any circumstances

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…or how should you go from where you are to where you want to be, emotionally, in your health, wealth, love, and happiness.

I just ended my core group training, and as it seems I now have some energy to coach.

Instantly three ‘associates’ called, on the same day, and I accepted all three for some friendly coaching: just for the fun of it.

Who or what kind of people are people I like to coach: Continue reading “How to turn your life around under any circumstances”

Be a fly on the wall observing me self-coaching

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This article has two parts:

In part one I coach myself to be able to make a decision if I want to spend the money and the time to sign up and do a course creators’ course. I am undecided… and that is, being on the fence is not good for me… So I want to make a decision and be done with it.
In part two I’ll look again at the idea of living, what it takes. The skill aspect. Inner skills and outer skills. You can skip to part two if you don’t want to follow my self-coaching method…

Here we go: part one: self coaching

I want to make a decision on the course creators’ course with artificial intelligence… Continue reading “Be a fly on the wall observing me self-coaching”

That sinking feeling in your stomach. Is it real?

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That sinking feeling… the feeling that you don’t measure up. The feeling of impending doom. Of being found out… The fear of death…

I just read an article in the New York Times, and ended up having that sinking feeling in my stomach.

I don’t often have it myself, that sinking feeling in my stomach. but I experience it from students on the calls, so I decided to investigate. Continue reading “That sinking feeling in your stomach. Is it real?”

Evolution, overpopulation, Life’s laws vs human laws

Yesterday the raccoons’ turf war began.

The video on the left isDNA from the internet: I cannot see the raccoons fighting in the house… I can only hear them. Frightening. And you need to add the crying of the babies… ugh.

The background: a mother and a daughter raccoon chose the house where I live as their breeding ground. Continue reading “Evolution, overpopulation, Life’s laws vs human laws”

Your health and your soul correction: what’s the connection?

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More often than not, what makes you sick, ill, is you doing what you feel will make you feel better.

No discipline, and very narrow cone of vision.

Let’s look at that: what you think is making you well, or going to make you well.

What is there is low tolerance or no tolerance to feel how you feel. No willingness to be present, to observe it, to let it talk. You react.

TLB is the degree that you are reactive. Twitchy Little Bastard… TLB. Continue reading “Your health and your soul correction: what’s the connection?”

Discerning, discipline, and a whole lot of ranting

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This article is about becoming more discerning in the area of health and money… so you can have both in abundance.

Giving you a food list looks like a great idea. But unless you can find the food items without all the preservatives, all the chemicals, everything can be bad for you.

What do preservatives do? And, by the way, the amount they put on your food, raw ingredients, is growing in leaps and bounds… almost as much as spam grows in my inbox.

Laws do not curtail… punishment is so rare that the billionaire food companies and the not so rich restaurants don’t care… the chance to be reprimanded and punished is slight.

In every area of life. Continue reading “Discerning, discipline, and a whole lot of ranting”

A new take on what ‘positive thinking’ could be but isn’t

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Positive THINKING, negative THINKING… listen up: it is not all about THINKING!

Instead, it is deciding where to look, and where to go.

Don’t look backwards unless you are planning to go that way (Thoureau).

Or if you are climbing a rock… don’t look down. You can look after you are safe… but not during the climb.

This has been my mantra for many decades. With it I avoided law suits, blaming, vengeance, and probably depression. Continue reading “A new take on what ‘positive thinking’ could be but isn’t”

If humanity lived in father-nature instead of mother-nature

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If humanity lived in father-nature, it would have to learn how to live, how to be, how to do best with what they have, so it can last. Mothers are to be used and abused… it’s just how it is… every living thing devours their mother… No compassion, no remorse.

mother-child is about getting
father-child is about instruction

Whether you are about getting or about being instructed… it’s a worldview.

Guess which worldview will make you more successful? At life… at living… at everything…

Continue reading “If humanity lived in father-nature instead of mother-nature”