What you try to control controls you. What you resist…

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What you try to control controls you. What you resist…

Your life is decided at around age three. Until that point you were totally unconscious. Your first event when some consciousness is present happens in an incident.

One of my clients ran a race then. I assume it was kindergarten. She won. She told her father. And instead of getting what she expected she got something else: you could have run faster, his father said… unaware of the how his words would be understood.

She heard ‘I don’t measure up’ to some yardstick in the sky. And she decided that the solution was to pretend that she is trying… Continue reading “What you try to control controls you. What you resist…”

When you are sick, your only job is to be sick

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When you are sick, your only job is to be sick

When you are sick, your only job is to be sick. NOT to heal yourself, but to be sick. Not to pretend to work, pretend to be well.

When you are sick, be sick.

What happens when you are trying to heal?

Then you resist reality… you replace reality with a should-be-reality.

Can your body do its job of healing you if and when you do that? No. It can’t. Continue reading “When you are sick, your only job is to be sick”

Some shoulds are imposed by other people, government, etc.

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Some shoulds are imposed by other people, government, etc.

Some shoulds are imposed by other people, government, etc.

Other shoulds are self-imposed.

I am Johnny-come-lately in that I couldn’t, didn’t see any shoulds, but now I’ve caught a few yesterday, and I caught a few today.

  • I should always look before I leap… lol. Especially when it comes to Freecell…
  • I should empty the dishwasher. This came on the shoulders of actually yesterday emptying and loading the thing… and now I have clean dishes and utensils.

Continue reading “Some shoulds are imposed by other people, government, etc.”

Talk a good talk? Know what’s the right thing? You doing it?

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Talk a good talk? Know what’s the right thing? You doing it?

Valentine’s day is another ‘should’ we have been resistant to…

If you pay attention, Big Brother is even more vigilant than your mother was… or your god supposedly is. Every single moment of yours is ‘structured’ by this Big Brother… Continue reading “Talk a good talk? Know what’s the right thing? You doing it?”

You are flaccid, impotent, ignored so you resist

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You are flaccid, impotent, ignored so you resist
You are flaccid, impotent, ignored… so you resist forcefully

Some terms of contradiction in the title, wouldn’t you agree?

But, of course, only on the surface.

If you feel powerless, which is the word I would use to cover all those colorful aspects with just one word… If you feel powerless, you’re, instinctively, going to use force… because it is natural.

I can’t even blame you for it. Continue reading “You are flaccid, impotent, ignored so you resist”

The Soul, The Ego, The body… all want something different

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The Soul, The Ego, The body… all want something different

Until you get, in your bones, in your everywhere that we are in this all together, you won’t be able to look at the world differently

Last night I had a really tough time falling asleep. I was alert, my brain working overtime.

As often, I started to download the Heaven on Earth bundle… consciously, paying attention to how it lands, all 48 energies with which one resists how it is. Continue reading “The Soul, The Ego, The body… all want something different”

Organized medicine: 3% truth value, Alternative? Healers? 1%

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Organized medicine: 3% truth value, Alternative? Healers? 1%

Every age has a favorite way to explain diseases, symptoms, and every age has been wrong.

There was a brief period in the 80’s maybe later. It started by Dr. Hulda Clark, and it was about parasites. And it was about enriching herself.

But she wasn’t altogether wrong, or not as wrong as organized medicine. Her method’s truth value was a whopping 7%… Still shabby, but less shabby. Continue reading “Organized medicine: 3% truth value, Alternative? Healers? 1%”

When what comes out of your mouth is glub glub

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When what comes out of your mouth is glub glub

Many, maybe most people live as if they were driftwood. Driftwood is a stuck state…

The most important thing I can tell you about driftwood is not that they drift…

The most important thing I can say about them is that they have no say in the matter of their life.

No power. Continue reading “When what comes out of your mouth is glub glub”

You can’t catch what you can’t see AND recognize

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You can’t catch what you can’t see AND recognize

You can’t catch what you can’t see. And to recognize: you first need to catch it to see it.

And if you can’t see what is at the root of a problem, you can’t help the client with it.

It is 100% in the invisible. They themselves don’t know it. And even when they see it, unless they have the distinction (i.e. recognize it for what it is), it is as good as if they have never seen it.

Recognition and distinction go hand in hand. Distinction is not a name, not a word, not even a sentence. It is a phenomenon. Continue reading “You can’t catch what you can’t see AND recognize”

Dynamics of self-sabotage: I will always I will never

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Dynamics of self-sabotage: I will always I will never
The all-or-nothing attitude (Gentian). The ‘I will always/I will never’ attitude.

We have been working with the machine. The machine we all live in. It is alive… and yet it’s a machine.

This, the self-sabotaging Gentian attitude is the most frequent move of the machine. Continue reading “Dynamics of self-sabotage: I will always I will never”