How you do math is how you do life… Smart or stupid?

math-is-the-language-of-godThe other day, during my daily walk, I met a guy. He was sitting on the long steps that lead to the top of the hill where I live. He was just sitting.

He said hello and almost instantly started to complain.

Turns out he lives on the money he gets for the beverage bottles and cans he collects.

When I asked if he had any education or skills, he said that he was smart and could have anything… easy… even a GED, if it weren’t for Math.

What I answered wasn’t empowering but it was true:

If you are bad at Math you are not smart.

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Unconditional Love lyrics

unconditional-loveUnconditional love… we all want it.

What does it mean in the common consciousness: it means that you can do whatever you want and you will still be loved, employed, healthy, etc…

What it doesn’t mean is YOU loving someone or something unconditionally.

Why? Because you can’t. It’s not how we are wired. It is counter to your instinct of survival. So you don’t, and you aren’t loved unconditionally. Not at least from the outside, by people.

But you can love yourself unconditionally! At least the two distinct you-s, that you have living in you, your observing, witnessing, guiding you, and your bumbling, clumsy, dumb, mistake making you…

The moment the two you’s are together, your experience of yourself and your life alters, dramatically. Your life won’t be marred by trying, and efforting, and fear, and anxiety… You’ll be as free as the the distance between the two you’s goes away.
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How do you know if a program or method works or not?

will-it-work-for-meA better question: How do you know if a program or method will work for you or not?

That is a crucial question.

A program may work, but

  1. you won’t like it
  2. you will be afraid to do what you need to do to make it work
  3. you don’t have the foundation to make it work
  4. you have time and energy to do it
  5. It takes you away from where you should be, or takes your time and attention from doing what you should be doing.

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Chronic issues, no answers? Some questions are answered here…

chronic health issues no answersLife, nature, growth are chaotic, and non-linear

Your thinking, your mind, on the other hand is linear.

When it asks the question “why” it expects a linear answer.

But, of course, any and all linear answers are wrong. Garbage in-garbage out. The answer can’t be better than the question.

The only way to see even just a fragment of the complexity of causes and effects is to practice keeping many plates spinning at the same time… to use a juggler analogy.

Instead, you multitask… which is trying to keep a plate spinning, a ball rolling, etc… impossible.
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Tools to remove Dark Side attachments yourself

sorcerer-overloadThis article gives you some tools that you can use to remove the Dark Side attachments you unwittingly gathered through curiosity, greed, or desire to heal. If I refused to remove your attachments, this is what I can offer to you, for now. If you can’t afford my services to remove you attachments, this is also your path.

From time to time I am approached by people that I know are dangerous. Some are unconscious of the danger they pose… they are like zombies… operated by a power greater than themselves: an evil and dark power.

How did that happen? They find themselves attracted to weird stuff… energies, spells, curses, rituals, magical, magik.

The attraction comes from weakness. And the weakness gets exploited.

Thousands of weak sorcerer wannabees walk around the planet, all enslaved by killer energies. Many come to me to curse me or ask for help.
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Do your biological age and behavior match?

Do your biological age and behavior match?

biological-bases-of-criminal-behaviour-3-638I found this chart on the net. Let’s do an experiment today, OK?

Find your age and give me feedback. It will be interesting to see if any of this is just mumbo jumbo or actually approximating the truth. Continue reading “Do your biological age and behavior match?”

Winners don’t fight what is: they use it.

Your chances are like this tiny sea turtle hatchling... not bigThe ones who fight are broken.

You fight? you’re broken

To all the people that had their anchor-to-doom attachment pulled, I recommended that they start using the Unconditional Love Activator. Why?

Because the capacity of allowing need to be first practiced between you and you. Between you and your actions. Between you and your feelings, thoughts, and urges.

Without first allowing what is, you will ALWAYS be ineffective, bruised, and beaten.

I have learned this the hard way. I am a very forceful person by nature, and that is a horrible thing for a coach. Forcefulness create resistance in the other person, and instead of smooth transition to desirable actions, I trigger fighting, belligerence, and ultimately failure.
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Conditioned patterns can be stubborn

1598273_1510684609157486_186667503_nI am re-learning to walk. It’s slow going, but muscletest said it would work, so I am practicing.

This morning I got this encouraging email

Hello, It’s Jonathan, just checking in to see how things are proceeding with your new ways of being.

Do you think it looks funny?

Does standing up feel like you’re leaning forward?
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What to do with what you don’t want, don’t agree with?

What to do with what you don’t want, don’t agree with?
lying to yourself is not allowing yourself to be who you areDo you get hooked? People pushing your buttons?

Ultimately, every time you encounter something you don’t want, don’t like, don’t agree with, your first reaction is resistance, i.e. not allowing what you don’t like to be. Continue reading “What to do with what you don’t want, don’t agree with?”