Become all you can become with SophieHe that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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When someone says: get present… what do YOU mean by that?
I have noticed that people often know the ‘what’ but completely miss the ‘how’.
I am almost certain that when I say ‘how’, you don’t even know where to look.
And I am almost certain that that unawareness, that ignorance, that ‘I have no idea what you are talking about‘ came from your upbringing, from your parents. Continue reading “When someone says: get present: what do YOU mean by that?”
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Astuteness means:To judge something accurately, you need a lot of skills, spiritual capacities, including seeing the big picture, etc. You need to be able to tell similar things apart. You need to be astute. And you may need to be able to answer the question ‘But is he/it worth a damn?’
The originator of that question, But is he worth a damn? Tai Lopez looks for credentials, because they are easy to check. But when I go and check the truth value of the books he recommends, I find anything from 3% to 9%. and that is not worth a damn. Continue reading “How reliable is your judgment? Are you judgmental? astute?”
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How do you cook frogs?
You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it.
Wild turns, jumps, dramatic workshops are dramatic, but ineffective.
Most things you want to change are stuck on the genetic level. All the behaviors are lined up neatly, like apples on an apple cart.
Continue reading “Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results tell”
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Calling something wrong is a complaint.
I drink a lot of tea. Tea needs brewing, and I hate tepid or cold tea, so I have a mug warmer. But it needs to be on.
Often I forget to turn it on.
Then I snap at myself ‘I am such an asshole’. And then laugh.
How can I be an asshole and brilliant as well?
This is what this article will be about: holding two opposing thoughts at the same time… Continue reading “Once you allow something to be WRONG, you have some choices”
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I HATE non-fiction. Even in audio, listening to it. I hate being when someone lectures me. It makes my brain stop working.
And no matter what the book or course is teaching, I cannot tune in. Even when it is important to me. Why? I cannot feel that I matter to the speaker. And I need to feel that I matter or I switch off.
Whereas when I read novels, it feels like an honor and a privilege to get an over the shoulder private view of what’s happening. And what is happening, at least in the novels I read, is interesting to me. Because I am interested in people, interested in the world.
But not that interested in what non-fiction writers want to teach. They don’t manage to make me want to read it, even when I know I need what they teach. Or that what they teach would benefit me. Continue reading “What if it is really a 3-year old who is doing your life?”
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Here it is, the secret technology to raise your vibration, instantly and permanently: validation
My Second Phase Activator class just had the hardest session ever: activating validation as a capacity. Continue reading “Secret technology to raise your vibration: validation”
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The art and science of getting unstuck… aka ALLOWINGCan I really promise that I’ll take you to freedom? That I can take you to unstuck and moving?
It may be that I have bit off more than I can chew.
This feeling of being stuck, maybe even being trapped, the inability to move, the feeling that there is no place to go… Continue reading “Is being stuck a personal issue that you should hide?”
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Stuck without a solution, stuck in a tight spot, stuck in a relationship, stuck with an irrevocable promise, stuck in a job, stuck behind… Stuck. And stuck is stuck.
This is the landscape of our life. NORMAL.
Whether we verbalize it or not, we feel stuck. life seems to work against us, and we feel we are a poor match to deal with what we need to deal with. Continue reading “Why those successful people became successful and not you?”
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I monitor visitor behavior on my site… to see how they treat my articles… I spend a few minutes a week, in the morning. It often gives me an idea of what to write about, what to teach next.
This article is a result of those few minutes of looking today.
Oh, I mostly look at people who signed up to get an email notification each time I publish a new article… by the way. Those people have expressed interest, so I want to see what people who say ‘I am interested’ are doing. Continue reading “How high can you go from where you are? Tai Lopez review”
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I learned to drive with manual transmission. there were no automatic shifts cars in Hungary at the time. Are there now? I have no idea.
I drove my first automatic in Israel. But even though it was automatic, I shifted back when we were climbing the mountain Jerusalem sits on. A steep serpentine road winding up the mountain with plenty of switchbacks. Not perfect for automatic transmission.
Jerusalem sits on a 2474 feet (754 meters above sea level). So I shifted back to second gear.
Driving that way made for a smoother ride. Continue reading “Why cannot you learn, cannot heal, cannot be happy?”
