Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
Enough, meaning as much or as many as required. We’ll see that by whom it is required, and for what it is required will change enough a lot.I remember, long time ago, writing an article to introduce the concept “enough” and one of my students got it and it propelled her to previously unimaginable heights … Continue reading “What is YOUR enough? Why are you where you are?”
This is a philosophical article, but at some point it is practical: it talks to your concerns, so it is worth your reading. This article will be, also, proof that all writing is re-writing. Now that I written the first draft, I can rewrite it, so it can get better… that is how life works.Fully … Continue reading “The invisible phenomenon of the unintegrated self…”
So I am listening to the “itch” calls from 2014, and I am mortified at the level of transformation… It is near zero.Sometimes I put the cart in front of the horse…The insight (the horse) on the two selves that unless they become a team, no transformation can happen, came since I did those amazing … Continue reading “Why, in spite of a good process you are taught, you don’t live a transformed life?”
I woke up with a start. OMG… The switch… or the pebble… or whatever I called it!The invisible dynamics is a system. It is like a machine. A complex machine… It takes in life as it could be, and it spits out your life as it is, having sucked all the juice out of it. … Continue reading “Itch, pebble in your shoe… two more invisible dynamics”
This is an audio that will explain a lot… and you’ll hate it. If by any chance you’ll love it, you just found the secret of a well lived life.AudioOkay. It’s Friday morning, and this little talk I’m doing today will not make you happy. Why? ‘Cause it’s going to upset the apple cart. It’s … Continue reading “What is YOUR context that leaves you unfulfilled?”
Inner motivation vs. Outer motivation… choose! Being motivated inwardly or outwardly. By returning to inner motivation you return to the childlike joy you remember so fondly…Real motivation is like inspiration: being pulled into doing something, instead of being pushed into efforting and trying and all the horizontal plane feelings: having to, needing to, wanting to, … Continue reading “We all want to feel motivated. But we are all taught the wrong way”
If meaning makes the difference between a life worth living or not, why is it that don’t you create a meaning that makes life worth living?You can’t, you won’t… but why? Let me muscletest!You lack intellectual capacity? 30%You don’t have the spiritual capacity to see the big picture in width and it time? 90%You lack … Continue reading “You live in a world of your own design, a world without meaning, a world of misery”
If you observed me, you would say that I don’t do myself what I suggest that you do: expand my life, expand my cone of vision, expand my social whatever… But what you see and what is are vastly different. Most of what matters happens in the invisible.I am going to explore this difference, this … Continue reading “Can I feel you when I look at you and hear you? An empath’s struggle… A bandwidth issue”
Life is not about winning. Life is about how you play…It is impossible to win. Life is not a winnable game. And wanting to win is setting you up for misery.So what is this ‘wanting to win?’It is an agenda. And like any agenda, it creates a narrow cone of vision, and a forceful ignorance … Continue reading “If it is about winning… you have already lost.”
That is the hardest virtue for me to practice… let alone master.So I have been watching kind people in movies, and I am reading Benjamin Franklin’s autobiography.I am noting the discrepancy between the behavior I observe and the behavior I would have in the same situation.It is so far out of my realm of possibility … Continue reading “I have decided to learn kindness.”
