One of the phenomenon I notice with people is that they do not have moves in communication. This comes from the binary way of viewing the world… either/or, one or the other, yes or no.
One area where this is detrimental to your well-being, to your success, to your energy, to your mood, is promises.
Requests and promises are actions. But they are not binary, even though the multitudes, and your mother and your boss, treat them as such.
When I request something of you, you think you are locked in to say either yes or no.
But your thinking is wrong… So what other choices do you have? Continue reading “Locked in/Locked out… scarcity thinking”
