Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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Reality can only be seen from the sideways view…And therein lies the reason why humans, the species hasn’t evolved for tens of thousands of years.
The inability for humans, for homo sapiens to grow, evolve, is a fact because 98% of all humans can’t or won’t even attempt to look from the sideways view. Continue reading “Happiness is an inside job, visible from the sideways view”
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Happiness is a function of accepting what is. Reality.Love is accepting the other exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t.
If you pay attention, deeply, both statements talk about what is and what isn’t.
Love mention what isn’t… Isn’t in reality, because it only exists in the mind, as an expectation. Continue reading “Reality… can you tell what is real and what isn’t?”
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Prison Break or the Art of Questions…What could someone do when the world, your health, your body, your relationships are not going the way they should… do anything other than be complacent, resigned, live in quiet desperation?
I always had this question, but reading the Fatemarks series the question is getting louder in my head.
On the internet Continue reading “Prison Break? What prison are you in unbeknownst to you?”
I got an insight today…
People are asking this question: how do I start? How do I get to where I want to get to?
And when I tell them how to get started, they ask the same question again. My answer wasn’t good enough for them.
So the insight I got is this: when you followed the current harmful teaching to imagine yourself where you want to be, you are expecting me to hand you the key… not tell you how to build that new reality from the bottom up.
Nothing works the way those ‘imagine people’ say… everything in reality is built from the ground up.
Yesterday someone asked me how to talk to someone to get a date.
I offered, instead, to look if he is ready to date, if he knows what he wants from dating, what is his agenda, etc.
Continue reading “The homework attitude and the desire trap”
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The Desire Trap and how to release it… A life with greed, want, desire, or resistance cannot be a happy life
The book Feelings writes at length about the Desire Trap,
Quoting from the Feelings book by Margoczi:
Continue reading “The Desire Trap and how to release a life of wants”
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In Reddit there is a thread where the guy shares that he ordered in his grocery pickup, eight bananas.
So they gave him eight bunches of bananas, and charged him for one single banana.
So he posts this on Reddit, and the people there went apeshit with ideas how to eat all the bananas, recipes galore. More comments than in any post I have seen before. Continue reading “This explains why we are fat, broke, sick and unhappy”
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TLB is your Twitchy Little Bastard score. Mental toughness, AND high TLB is the difference between a reactive, undisciplined, five year old who cannot see past the next five minutes, and a person (whatever age) who can actually see and act conscious of the consequences of their action or inaction.
Tai Lopez calls these according to names of the Greek philosophies that reigned around the time of Seneca the Elder: the Stoics, and the Epicurians.
If you gobble up a cheese burger, you are an Epicurian who can’t see where eating that toxic stuff will leads you… fat, poor, sick, and wanting more.
If money burns a hole in your pocket… you are probably living the Epicurian lifestyle. You can’t stand not having your phone with you, ditto.
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The most important thing that happened to you happened when you were around three years old. It was a decision that happened to you. Even though you made that decision, you are now a slave to it.
Until that first incident you were innocent. Unless you make that decision malleable, that decision you made about how life is, how you are, how it’s best to behave, nothing can change about you or your life.
I can pull your anchor to doom energetically, and yet… nothing changes. Because that decision is like a physical skeleton, a framework, that everything, all of your life is built on.
And however you are today, however you approach anything comes from that decision. Entirely.
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…every step of the way
Here are a few unexpected ways you keep yourself trapped in your misery:
How it should be, how it should go, what is right and what is wrong behavior, looks, everything.
You apply these standards to measure everything and everyone… and, of course, everything and everyone falls short… including yourself.
Standards are something that you invented, or alternatively bought into. You relate to them as if they were universal and mandatory for everyone…
It is all made up. There are no standards that survive reality: these are all made up reality, not binding to everyone, maybe not even to anyone. Continue reading “Your standards and ideals. Rulemaking. Wanting to win…”
Most of the things that are visible, you are not able to see.
It is like seeing the back of your head: you need a mirror to see it. A ‘talking mirror’, meaning: another person. An observer.
I have been reading this fantasy series by David Estes. Heromarked, soulmarked, fatemarked, whatevermarked… I like it, I just don’t remember the titles… sorry.
Anyway the idea may be nebulous: depending on how you look at it. If you look at it as nebulous, then for you it is.
This morning I had a realization that people don’t know what their lives should be about, they don’t have a meaning, they don’t have a purpose. Continue reading “We are destroying life on Earth… Unless…”
