Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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Many, maybe most people live as if they were driftwood. Driftwood is a stuck state…
The most important thing I can tell you about driftwood is not that they drift…
The most important thing I can say about them is that they have no say in the matter of their life.
No power. Continue reading “When what comes out of your mouth is glub glub”
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You can’t catch what you can’t see. And to recognize: you first need to catch it to see it.
And if you can’t see what is at the root of a problem, you can’t help the client with it.
It is 100% in the invisible. They themselves don’t know it. And even when they see it, unless they have the distinction (i.e. recognize it for what it is), it is as good as if they have never seen it.
Recognition and distinction go hand in hand. Distinction is not a name, not a word, not even a sentence. It is a phenomenon. Continue reading “You can’t catch what you can’t see AND recognize”
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The all-or-nothing attitude (Gentian). The ‘I will always/I will never’ attitude.We have been working with the machine. The machine we all live in. It is alive… and yet it’s a machine.
This, the self-sabotaging Gentian attitude is the most frequent move of the machine. Continue reading “Dynamics of self-sabotage: I will always I will never”
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The first question that you should ask when I suggest you become a better human being, is ‘what do you mean: better?‘ Continue reading “Will Practicing Compassion Make You A Better Human?”
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The idea that I should drag people to heaven, people who kick and scream ‘no’ does not appeal to me.
So I do best with people who can and want to do the work.
Just so you know, it takes an inordinate amount of work to turn oneself from a homo sapiens, living in the culture of homo sapiens into a human being. Continue reading “I don’t want to wrestle you… I prefer to let you go…”
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My soul correction (Forget Thyself) is hasty. Jumping in, and making mistakes, getting in a mess, scrambling to get out.
Nowadays that we are hunting for the should shouldn’t spouting little voice, I am forced to realize that for me it is not words… it is a push. Or is it a pull?
I am also seeing that many of may I hate that come from that push
So let’s hunt for some hates… and let’s see if this is personal to me, or across the field. Please, I will need your feedback.
There are a few things I can’t tolerate, would not tolerate. Continue reading “How you can go from being a rough diamond to finely cut gem”
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I have been wondering if I could tell if a person can be trained or not. What would I see that would tell me yes or no?
I watched a little Grantchester on Amazon Prime yesterday. In one of those episodes the vicar gets laid. His pal almost instantly knows.
A few years ago I saw a woman come out of the hotel elevator in Las Vegas. To me she looked like she had always looked, but a man in our group instantly knew she just got laid.
I verified it with her… But how did he know? Continue reading “He got some last night… yes. But how would you know it?”
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I overslept this morning. Whenever you oversleep, or allow comfort to set in, something sinister happens in the invisible.
Your brain takes your behavior as an instruction that you want to practice for death.
You could call it hibernation, but it is only hibernation if that is what you meant to do. Otherwise it is the state where there is no future.
The first signs are hopelessness. There is no hope. There is no future. Just blah. Continue reading “Have the ‘why bother?’ attitude? A Big C symptom”
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Independent, strong willed, smart, knowledgeable, pretty, nice, creative. all lies.
You paint those over everything. Over everything to hide that you are not that. Hiding that you are a real person suffering from no freedom to be yourself. You have no freedom to be any way you want to be. Instead you have to be nice. Instead you have to be smart, you have to be independent. Or maybe you have to be a superwoman. Continue reading “The second and third move of the machine…”
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As I am running with this new insight that the culprit of misery and self-destructive behavior is the soul’s doing I am starting to see some aspects I didn’t see yesterday.
I said it yesterday, that the words that urge you on resulting in some damage… often resulting big damage is the shoulds.
It feels like someone inside is guiding you… guiding your actions. So if you don’t have the distinction that all shoulds come from the soul, its dark side, you can spend your whole life being moved by these shoulds… Continue reading “Hear the soul scrambling… crazy world…”
