Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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The all-or-nothing attitude (Gentian). The ‘I will always/I will never’ attitude.We have been working with the machine. The machine we all live in. It is alive… and yet it’s a machine.
This, the self-sabotaging Gentian attitude is the most frequent move of the machine. Continue reading “Dynamics of self-sabotage: I will always I will never”
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The first question that you should ask when I suggest you become a better human being, is ‘what do you mean: better?‘ Continue reading “Will Practicing Compassion Make You A Better Human?”
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My soul correction (Forget Thyself) is hasty. Jumping in, and making mistakes, getting in a mess, scrambling to get out.
Nowadays that we are hunting for the should shouldn’t spouting little voice, I am forced to realize that for me it is not words… it is a push. Or is it a pull?
I am also seeing that many of may I hate that come from that push
So let’s hunt for some hates… and let’s see if this is personal to me, or across the field. Please, I will need your feedback.
There are a few things I can’t tolerate, would not tolerate. Continue reading “How you can go from being a rough diamond to finely cut gem”
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I have been wondering if I could tell if a person can be trained or not. What would I see that would tell me yes or no?
I watched a little Grantchester on Amazon Prime yesterday. In one of those episodes the vicar gets laid. His pal almost instantly knows.
A few years ago I saw a woman come out of the hotel elevator in Las Vegas. To me she looked like she had always looked, but a man in our group instantly knew she just got laid.
I verified it with her… But how did he know? Continue reading “He got some last night… yes. But how would you know it?”
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I overslept this morning. Whenever you oversleep, or allow comfort to set in, something sinister happens in the invisible.
Your brain takes your behavior as an instruction that you want to practice for death.
You could call it hibernation, but it is only hibernation if that is what you meant to do. Otherwise it is the state where there is no future.
The first signs are hopelessness. There is no hope. There is no future. Just blah. Continue reading “Have the ‘why bother?’ attitude? A Big C symptom”
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Independent, strong willed, smart, knowledgeable, pretty, nice, creative. all lies.
You paint those over everything. Over everything to hide that you are not that. Hiding that you are a real person suffering from no freedom to be yourself. You have no freedom to be any way you want to be. Instead you have to be nice. Instead you have to be smart, you have to be independent. Or maybe you have to be a superwoman. Continue reading “The second and third move of the machine…”
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As I am running with this new insight that the culprit of misery and self-destructive behavior is the soul’s doing I am starting to see some aspects I didn’t see yesterday.
I said it yesterday, that the words that urge you on resulting in some damage… often resulting big damage is the shoulds.
It feels like someone inside is guiding you… guiding your actions. So if you don’t have the distinction that all shoulds come from the soul, its dark side, you can spend your whole life being moved by these shoulds… Continue reading “Hear the soul scrambling… crazy world…”
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As I got further and further writing this article, I realized that what I am writing is some sort of manifesto. What we are doing here, what we aim to accomplish.
All the illustrations of manifestos I didn’t examine. They can be good, bad, or neutral. They are just illustrations. Don’t get your panties in a bunch…
OK, here is the article:
Your soul correction, in effect, is a racket. Continue reading “Causing human evolution… A manifesto of sorts”
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Why are some people happy, but not you?
Why are some people successful, but not you?
This article could create a turning point for you and your life… By using the method I teach here.
Realizing value is, maybe, the fundamental distinction that is missing.What does it mean: realize the value of something.
Realize means: make it real. It is a real thing.
For example, a blueprint, the plans of a house have no value. Only when the house is built according to the blueprint does.
Continue reading “Why do some people make millions, but not you?”
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How do you think of yourself less?What does that mean? Thinking of others? By becoming a do-gooder?
OK, I am going to clarify something. Something that myself don’t quite know how it works, and why it works that way.
So it may come out incomprehensible, botched up, and useless. But, in my view, it is worth to try…
Note: if you only read one example, make it #5!
OK, the issue: one of the measurements is to what degree your life is about you and your life… the words I use I borrowed from someone else… True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. and the words are ‘to what degree you think of yourself’… as a measure of humility i.e. how much room you have to learn and grow, how much room you have for the world, for work, for life… for others. Continue reading “How do you think of yourself less? your about-me score”
