How do you remove a rusted in screw from wood or metal?

Life is like a rusty screw: resists your efforts to be smooth… Full of frustration… isn’t it?

Introducing The rusty screw method… Removing the frustration without anything other than a screwdriver…

Your life, the quality of your life is the direct consequence of what you see.

Not everyone sees the same thing… even though what happens, what is in reality is the exact same thing… the only thing different is the observer.

People who are effective, happy, healthy, productive see reality differently. Continue reading “How do you remove a rusted in screw from wood or metal?”

Monday? It is time for me to read the Monday Morning Memo

Monday? It is time for me to read the Monday Morning Memo

And if it connects to what’s happening, use it as fertilizer of my brain, my thinking.

And today it is one of those days…

Roy H. Williams is talking about patterns this morning in the Memo.

He talks about archetypes… a particular pattern… but here is the rub: if you have NO distinctions in one area, you probably have no distinctions anywhere.

And a distinction is just another word for a pattern. Continue reading “Monday? It is time for me to read the Monday Morning Memo”

How to not end up eating sh!t in life, like you have been

What is your complaint? What is your problem?

In this article having a problem, repeatedly, we’ll call it ‘eating sh!t’… even though it sounds crude… it is, I say, what is happening.

Why would you have that problem? That complaint? Continue reading “How to not end up eating sh!t in life, like you have been”

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation explained

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation.

A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. ~ Henry David Thoreau

But what is underneath?

I have written about the Kabbalistic concept of time, that says: time is there so you don’t immediately see cause and effect, forcing you to choose with foresight… consciously.

I love that concept.

One cousin once removed of that is how it takes something to actually see the invisible roots of a situation… a backward seeing. If the other is foresight, would this be ‘backsight?’ lol.

How does it look? How does it work?

Continue reading “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation explained”

You are what you repeatedly do. The path of least resistance

You are what you repeatedly do. The path of least resistance

What you repeatedly do because it is the path of least resistance is called habits.

And just like water will not willingly flow uphill… habits, what you do, is difficult to change.

And yet… we want a different life. We want to feel differently about ourselves. And we want a different body, different work, different relationships. Continue reading “You are what you repeatedly do. The path of least resistance”

How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?

How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?

When I was about 20, still a full time student, I had a guy. He wasn’t even a boy friend, just a guy I liked. We had casual sex. Then he met a girl who he said was a nymphomaniac, and he never had anything to do with me again.

Fast forward 30 years…

I was living with this dude, who would spend whole nights with this other woman… come home only to change clothes for work. Continue reading “How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?”

Your mortal fear of having-to do anything, feel anything

Or what is wrong can be fixed with right…

I read today: there is nothing wrong with America that can’t be fixed by what is right with America

And tons of memes about wrong and fixing… But…

As usual I start my day with Reddit… OK, first I answer my emails to clients… then I go to Reddit.

I found a thread that turned the light on for me. Continue reading “Your mortal fear of having-to do anything, feel anything”

The secret power of We, Us, when not everything is about you

Being part, belonging is part of the Original Design. It is part of the DNA to belong. To belong to something greater than yourself.

Family, group, society…

And it is a good thing… and yet.

When I look at how it seems to look in reality, I see the opposite. Continue reading “The secret power of We, Us, when not everything is about you”

Teaching is, essentially, making someone SEE something.

Teaching is, essentially, making someone SEE something. Not imagine, mind you, but actually SEE. With their eyes.

The hardest thing to do in a world where people spend all their times in their heads.

Nothing to see there!

I had this flash of insight this morning.

What T Harv Eker says is true, and yet not useful.

He says: When something is not working, there is something you don’t see…

And people don’t know where to look, how to look to actually see what they don’t see. Continue reading “Teaching is, essentially, making someone SEE something.”

What is the difference between fake and real healing?

Healing means: restoring to perfect health… the original state. How you are meant to be.

Doctors, healers, ‘medical intuitives’ make up diseases that then they can ‘cure’. No restoration. There is no money in health.

I don’t do made-up diseases… Source doesn’t see them as disease…

Made up diseases sit on a foundation of wrong… even though there is no ‘wrong’ in reality… only in words.

There are man-made, self-made conditions, that are not diseases, although they can be very unpleasant. Continue reading “What is the difference between fake and real healing?”