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Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results tell

Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results speak for themselves.

How do you cook frogs?

You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it.

The way you cook frog is the surest way to change.

Wild turns, jumps, dramatic workshops are dramatic, but ineffective.

Most things you want to change are stuck on the genetic level. All the behaviors are lined up neatly, like apples on an apple cart.
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Once you allow something to be WRONG, you have some choices

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Calling something wrong is a complaint.

I drink a lot of tea. Tea needs brewing, and I hate tepid or cold tea, so I have a mug warmer. But it needs to be on.

Often I forget to turn it on.

Then I snap at myself ‘I am such an asshole’. And then laugh.

How can I be an asshole and brilliant as well?

This is what this article will be about: holding two opposing thoughts at the same time… Continue reading “Once you allow something to be WRONG, you have some choices”

What if it is really a 3-year old who is doing your life?

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I HATE non-fiction. Even in audio, listening to it. I hate being when someone lectures me. It makes my brain stop working.

And no matter what the book or course is teaching, I cannot tune in. Even when it is important to me. Why? I cannot feel that I matter to the speaker. And I need to feel that I matter or I switch off.

Whereas when I read novels, it feels like an honor and a privilege to get an over the shoulder private view of what’s happening. And what is happening, at least in the novels I read, is interesting to me. Because I am interested in people, interested in the world.

But not that interested in what non-fiction writers want to teach. They don’t manage to make me want to read it, even when I know I need what they teach. Or that what they teach would benefit me. Continue reading “What if it is really a 3-year old who is doing your life?”

Secret technology to raise your vibration: validation

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Here it is, the secret technology to raise your vibration, instantly and permanently: validation

My Second Phase Activator class just had the hardest session ever: activating validation as a capacity. Continue reading “Secret technology to raise your vibration: validation”

Is being stuck a personal issue that you should hide?

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The art and science of getting unstuck… aka ALLOWING

Can I really promise that I’ll take you to freedom? That I can take you to unstuck and moving?

It may be that I have bit off more than I can chew.

This feeling of being stuck, maybe even being trapped, the inability to move, the feeling that there is no place to go… Continue reading “Is being stuck a personal issue that you should hide?”

Why those successful people became successful and not you?

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You are Stuck…

Stuck without a solution, stuck in a tight spot, stuck in a relationship, stuck with an irrevocable promise, stuck in a job, stuck behind… Stuck. And stuck is stuck.

This is the landscape of our life. NORMAL.

Whether we verbalize it or not, we feel stuck. life seems to work against us, and we feel we are a poor match to deal with what we need to deal with. Continue reading “Why those successful people became successful and not you?”

Why cannot you learn, cannot heal, cannot be happy?

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I learned to drive with manual transmission. there were no automatic shifts cars in Hungary at the time. Are there now? I have no idea.

I drove my first automatic in Israel. But even though it was automatic, I shifted back when we were climbing the mountain Jerusalem sits on. A steep serpentine road winding up the mountain with plenty of switchbacks. Not perfect for automatic transmission.

Jerusalem sits on a 2474 feet (754 meters above sea level). So I shifted back to second gear.

Driving that way made for a smoother ride. Continue reading “Why cannot you learn, cannot heal, cannot be happy?”

The art and science of getting yourself unstuck…

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70% of all people feel that they are stuck… And I guess, 100% of the people feel, at least occasionally, that they are stuck.

Feeling stuck is very unpleasant. I know because I know how it feels.

But being stuck is not real, unless it is something physical, and no one means that, when they say they feel stuck. Continue reading “The art and science of getting yourself unstuck…”

Coming Out Of Grief – The Process And the Problem

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This article deals with the stages of healing, healing your grief. Denial, anger, fear, and so on.

The most important distinction I can add is: check your cone of vision. If your cone of vision is narrow, everything is colored or filled with your grief: the context of life becomes your grief, independent of the content of life.

In addition to that, when you are grief stricken, you start interacting with unreality, and avoid reality. Continue reading “Coming Out Of Grief – The Process And the Problem”

Who has the right to say? The right to judge you?

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I think the main issue that has arrested human evolution is not in the individual, but in the system.

What is the system? because it is always the system… stupid.

But the word system is as slippery as the word context… because it always means something different, yet there is a distinction that points to context or points to system regardless of size, age, or circumstance. Continue reading “Who has the right to say? The right to judge you?”