Category: human condition

How can a statement: ‘I cannot’ be a lie and truth as well?

How can a statement: ‘I cannot’ be a lie and truth as well?

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How can a statement: ‘I cannot’ be a lie and truth as well? And how can you tell the difference?

Most ‘I cannot’ statements are lies. They actually say ‘I will not’. I won’t even try. I didn’t care to do it.

The speaker may be you, someone else, or the little voice. Continue reading “How can a statement: ‘I cannot’ be a lie and truth as well?”

So you want to live long… let’s look at that, OK?

So you want to live long… let’s look at that, OK?

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Let’s get some clarity, shall we?

On longevity, or life expectancy…

There are all kinds of theories and hypotheses about the life expectancy of humans.

What do we know?

  • We know that some people, in spite of eating everything, in spite of smoking, drinking, they live a long life.
  • Others, in spite of every effort, they die when they die.
Most of the longevity theories are designed to fleece you.

Continue reading “So you want to live long… let’s look at that, OK?”

What you see will give you your emotions, your actions

What you see will give you your emotions, your actions

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When I find an issue that a student is struggling or not dealing well with, I write an article.

The issue here, I guess, is universal.

It has two parts:

  • you can’t see the big picture, the forest, for the trees. You are stuck with your ONE interpretation of facts. One of anything is dangerous! You are rigid. You have no imagination. And you have a fixed mindset. You have believed the myth of ‘is’…
  • you are not good, practiced, skillful at taking advantage of the practices I have taught.

A student of mine has a daughter. The daughter decided to join the swim team. She is 13 years old. The only person who can take her to her swimming is my student. Continue reading “What you see will give you your emotions, your actions”

We and energies. We and love. We and a life you can love

We and energies. We and love. We and a life you can love

 

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As I wrote in yesterday’s article, we is not part of human culture.

In my interaction with clients I am starting to distinguish that there are two dimensions of ‘we’, just like there are two dimensions of ‘love’.

We all want to be included, we all want to be loved. That is the one side, the one dimension of either.

The other dimensions is us including, us loving. The level of that, in the current humanity, is 0%. In the 1000, it is 30%. My level is 70%.

Does wanting to give, giving, making a difference count on that level? Continue reading “We and energies. We and love. We and a life you can love”

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

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Or how to go from drifting to achieving…

In this article I am going to give you the secret. The secret to success. The secret to a good life. And you probably won’t hear it… and ignore it.

How do I know? I have been doing it long enough that I finally distilled the secret down to the one issue that if it is there, you cannot be successful. AND you can’t hear me. The two are connected. Continue reading “Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?”

How realistic are your expectations? of yourself, your life

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How realistic are your expectations? of yourself, your life

I wrote this article about ten years ago.

Since then I have done a lot of work in the area of intelligence. This article is a lot more mainstream (meaning: wrong) than I like it, so I am in the middle of writing yet another article.

The new article will take out the mystery, why you aren’t able to accomplish what is within your power to accomplish… And what to do so that you can. Continue reading “How realistic are your expectations? of yourself, your life”

What are the most typical signs of low or no intelligence?

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What are the most typical signs of low or no intelligence?

What are the most typical signs of stupid… aka low or no intelligence?

First off, what do I consider intelligent?

Intelligent, if you look, has a certain appropriateness. Flow. Fitting. Maybe even elegance. Maybe even grace and ease. Workability. Life working.

Nowadays we hear a lot about AI, artificial intelligence chatbots. Notice that they don’t call it artificial smarts… It’s intelligence. Continue reading “What are the most typical signs of low or no intelligence?”

This is the way the cookie crumbles… Really

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This is the way the cookie crumbles… Really

This is the way the cookie crumbles: your life, the quality of your life depends on you.

I’ve read somewhere that people are only curious about something they already know. Not ‘know about’ but actually know. Had experience with.

Knowing about is idle curiosity: useless.

  • You don’t know the river until you wade into it.
  • You don’t know a person unless you wade in and deal with him.
  • And you don’t know a poem until you try to say it out loud.

Continue reading “This is the way the cookie crumbles… Really”

What does a 1000 see and you don’t? Can you learn to see?

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What does a 1000 see and you don’t? Can you learn to see?

One of the differences is that a 1000 always has a coach or coaches… mentors, people they talk to regularly, who are, in certain respects, ahead of them. People who can see what they can’t see.

See principles, distinctions, aberrations, errors, false steps, causation. Continue reading “What does a 1000 see and you don’t? Can you learn to see?”

What prevents you from becoming all you can become?

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What prevents you from becoming all you can become?

what prevents you from learning?If you were a cabbage… would you allow yourself to be trained to become a cauliflower? Roman Cauliflower… like the picture to the left? What prevents you from that?

You want to be more, know more, but you prevent yourself from it… But how?

But how do you prevent yourself from learning, being trained, getting better, growing as a person? Continue reading “What prevents you from becoming all you can become?”