How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?

How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?

How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?

When I was about 20, still a full time student, I had a guy. He wasn’t even a boy friend, just a guy I liked. We had casual sex. Then he met a girl who he said was a nymphomaniac, and he never had anything to do with me again.

Fast forward 30 years…

I was living with this dude, who would spend whole nights with this other woman… come home only to change clothes for work. Continue reading “How well do you know yourself? And do you like yourself?”

Let’s look deeper to see what consciousness really may be

Let’s look deeper to see what consciousness really may be

Let’s talk about the planes of existence… Where we live where consciousness can come from… shall we?

A plane is like a whole world, where certain things are obvious, certain things are possible, while other things aren’t even possible.

The two main planes I know of are the horizontal and the vertical plane. Continue reading “Let’s look deeper to see what consciousness really may be”

For you everything is the same as everything else…

For you everything is the same as everything else…

For you everything is the same as everything else…

Or said in a different way: you can’t tell the forest from the trees.
You can’t tell your ass from a hole in the ground
You can’t see the big picture

All mean the same: you can’t see distinction.

When you are a student, you use the jargon, but you don’t see what it means. You use it thinking that saying the word means you can see it, you can be guided by it…

I took to distinctions like fish takes to water.

Because of that it never made sense to me what’s the problem. Continue reading “For you everything is the same as everything else…”

Why is it harmful to live in your own world? Bad for you?

Why is it harmful to live in your own world? Bad for you?

Let me set down this first: worldly success completely depends on your ability to bilocate… In essence the size of your awareness…

Whether you bilocate like the light bulb or multitasking, or are able to be both places at the same time is just a little bit different… both work.

What am I talking about? Continue reading “Why is it harmful to live in your own world? Bad for you?”

Do you live your life without preparation? Winging it?

Do you live your life without preparation? Winging it?

There is a saying ‘Always be selling’, but I think ‘Always be preparing’ is a better saying.

It doesn’t just apply to everyone, it also is more useful.

There’s a quote famously attributed to Alexander Graham Bell: ‘BEFORE anything else, preparation is the key to success.’

Today’s parents, today’s people don’t think they are unprepared. I have read about a woman who homeschools her children, and decided that they don’t need to learn basic maths… Continue reading “Do you live your life without preparation? Winging it?”

Homo sapiens, homo victimus, human being…

Homo sapiens, homo victimus, human being…

There is an interesting human trait: when something doesn’t go as we expect it, we first, and some of us forever, blame something or someone else, other than own that we did it ourselves.

We could say that this humanity, this version of humanity could be safely called ‘homo victimus’ more accurately than be called homo sapiens… we don’t seem to be wise. Continue reading “Homo sapiens, homo victimus, human being…”

It is hard to read the label when you are inside the bottle.

It is hard to read the label when you are inside the bottle.

OK, Sophie, but what is the bottle you are in? And what is the label?

Most everything that is about you is the bottle and most everything that would clue you in why you are stuck, why you don’t feel well, why your life works the way it works is the label.

To read the label, you need get outside of the bottle… while you are also in it.

I call it bilocation… but not in the physical or esoteric sense…

I mean it in the intellectual sense. Continue reading “It is hard to read the label when you are inside the bottle.”

What kind of soil are you for the seeds I plant?

What kind of soil are you for the seeds I plant?
soil-types-who-you-are will grow or notWho is listening? Who is listening that you are unwilling or unable to move towards your dreams?

Warning: without the concept in this article, you can read 100 books, take 100 seminars, and they will not matter… chances are you have never heard about this concept.

In this article I am writing about a little known aspect of life… I couldn’t even find pictures for it… I will be using a gardening analogy,

What kind of soil are you?

Continue reading “What kind of soil are you for the seeds I plant?”

Widespread incompetence, insufficiency, abominable service

Widespread incompetence, insufficiency, abominable service

What is the reason of the widespread incompetence, insufficiency and abominable service companies provide?

And I mean big companies, Amazon, Google, Twitter, Clickbank, Spectrum, nearly any company I deal with…

I am going to use muscletesting to answer most of the questions…

But before I go large, I am going to look at some of the things I can see, even though I am a shut-in.

Case study one:

I live in an apartment in a two-family home. Continue reading “Widespread incompetence, insufficiency, abominable service”

Scarcity, fear of not enough, reciprocal altruism…

Scarcity, fear of not enough, reciprocal altruism…

Recently I learned some things… And when I learn something, I turn around and open my eyes widely… so I can see the big picture, so I can see how many and how far the dots are that belong to the same thing.

This article will document some of my learnings, and will let you see the dots that are not readily visible as part of the same distinction. Continue reading “Scarcity, fear of not enough, reciprocal altruism…”