Category: attitudes

Too good to leave, too bad to stay… Leave what exactly?

Too good to leave, too bad to stay… Leave what exactly?

The book with the same title was about relationships, whether to stay or to go… But if you really look, the conundrum is applicable to work, applicable to lifestyle, opinion, attitude, diet, course, program, profession. Applicable to nearly everything where you need to make a choice… but instead or choosing you are on the fence.

This choice also includes choosing your worldview. Choosing to remain with the one you have, or look at the world differently. Continue reading “Too good to leave, too bad to stay… Leave what exactly?”

Learning lessons the hard way or the easy way, choose 2

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Learning lessons the hard way or the easy way, choose 2

The brilliance in the movie, It’s a wonderful life is that the angel creates a thought experiment: what the world would be like if our hero hadn’t been born.

Thought experiments are uniquely human: animals can’t do thought experiments. Continue reading “Learning lessons the hard way or the easy way, choose 2”

The principle of compounding is not only about money

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The principle of compounding is not only about money

The principle of compounding is not only about money

It is also in attaining the good life: health, wealth, love and fulfillment.

But not understanding the principle, having a narrow cone of vision will rob you of a chance for a life you love and live powerfully. If that is what you want… listen up. This may be the most disturbing and the most beneficial article you have ever read. Continue reading “The principle of compounding is not only about money”

Your use of language gives away your inauthenticity

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Your use of language gives away your inauthenticity

Your use of language gives away your inauthenticity

The English language used to be quite precise in its tenses, but the language has been destroyed by the powers that be.

I learned English from teachers in another country, teachers who still remembered that your words express, or at least attempt at approximating accurately reality or our intention. Continue reading “Your use of language gives away your inauthenticity”

Let’s learn to have kind eyes… Is it learnable?

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Let’s learn to have kind eyes… Is it learnable?

One of the problems that humanity is dealing with is this: they are too quick to judge, and judge disfavorably.

No patience. No compassion. And definitely no kind eyes.

So what is this kind eyes thing?

It is letting go of judgment. Letting go of standards and ideals. And letting go of demanding perfection. Continue reading “Let’s learn to have kind eyes… Is it learnable?”

If you are not for you, who is for you? What does that mean?

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If you are not for you, who is for you? What does that mean?

Unclarity, confusion about these two, wants and needs can and will lead to unhappiness.

Some people go so far as add demand to this confusion.

So let’s create some clarity in this area, so you can finally have some access to joy, fulfillment, contentment, and feeling good about yourself and your life, shall we?

Let’s start with a question:

What do you want more of in life but you can’t seem to get it?

Continue reading “If you are not for you, who is for you? What does that mean?”

My secret weapon or what I use in healing myself and others

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My secret weapon or what I use in healing myself and others
Energy Healing

The Big Bundle is what I use to heal 90% of the time. Another energy is the Heaven on Earth (bundle) and the Source Light Energy.

We all hear and read about energy healing. And we hope they work… But most of that healing doesn’t work or it’s disappointing. Why? Continue reading “My secret weapon or what I use in healing myself and others”

What is unhappiness? Is it the opposite of happiness?

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What is unhappiness? Is it the opposite of happiness?

Occasionally I find myself mumbling to myself: ‘I am not happy.‘ Add the scrunched up face…

What does that mean that I am not happy?

How do I know I am not happy? Continue reading “What is unhappiness? Is it the opposite of happiness?”

What is the difference between a field and a context?

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What is the difference between a field and a context?

Oh… and why should you care? lol

First off: what’s a context?

The best way I can explain a context is that it’s a backdrop. Like the background in front of whatever is happening happening. You are unaware of it, and therefore your actions are not consistent with what people expect. You are offensive. Or you are disagreeable. Or you are out of line. Continue reading “What is the difference between a field and a context?”

How to get out of the rut you are in? Get unstuck…

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How to get out of the rut you are in? Get unstuck…

Simple answer: You lack skills and capacities…

You can boil water, make coffee in the coffee maker. Drive a car, open your smartphone… You are not quite hopeless… or are you? Not quite hapless either… or are you?

One of the measurements in the Starting Point Measurements is your vocabulary: how well  do you actually know, how accurately know what words mean…

Here we look into words (distinctions) that define your ability to live a good life… skills, competencies, abilities and such. Continue reading “How to get out of the rut you are in? Get unstuck…”