How you keep yourself the same, even when you want to change

I have been doing energy healing, healing with energies for 23 years now.

In the first six years I used man-made energies… What?! Yeah. All energies healers use are man-made. On average they are placebo… or 10% effective. So a client with no faith won’t get healing…

I started the healing regimen of a woman on Monday. Distant healing.

I normally do my healing after I go to bed… It also helps me fall asleep, and healing while naked and on my back is easier on my body.

Except…

Except that I am having a resistant client.

She, secretly, would rather remain ill… so she can stay at home and do nothing. She hasn’t gotten yet that what she has is going to kill her.

So I went through my usual song-and-dance moves. I’ll just send her money back… She wants me to fail… Blah blah blah.

But I decided that I can just reschedule her healing for the very early mornings when she is asleep. She paid me to heal her… so that is what I am going to do.

So in this article I want to talk about the distinction: ‘undeclared commitment’ and about a new more effective way I have learned from these fantasy sagas I am reading.

Undeclared Commitment

We all have undeclared commitments. This is the closest most people get to commitment…

Commitment is not a want, not a promise, not a should, not an obligation. It comes directly from spirit… from inside. Obviously. Where spirit is.

We don’t know but we seem to be committed to not changing, to our worldview not changing, to our opinion not changing.

To not changing.

And we seem to be committed to get something for nothing. To be a taker. To be a user. And to be superior without doing any work for it, without deserving it.

Entitlement is an undeclared commitment.

If an when you are willing to be responsible for what you are committed to, whether it is declared or undeclare, we have a commitment and moreover, you have a choice.

Responsibility and choice are always together. Without responsibility there is no choice. There is no choosing.

Choice is ‘selecting freely AFTER consideration’.

You my choose not to be committed to what you find yourself committed to.

Not to your racket and its many payoffs. Not to your pretenses. And not to comfort and safety. Having chosen to NOT BE COMMITTED to those.

Instead: commit to living. Commit to Life.

Not many do. About 1%… the trick is to decommit to ALL of your undeclared commitments that hinder you.

Like the woman who unconsciously chooses death… because, for the moment, it is more comfortable.

So here comes the second topic: the new way of healing.

The energies are the same. The delivery is different.

My attitude in healing is ‘desire to receive for the sake of sharing’. Meaning: I am the channel. The energy, the benevolence, the knowledge flows through me to you.

But if I look at myself as a water glass. I allow myself to be filled up for your sake. So you get to drink.

So how does this translate in healing?

I had been, before this morning, used the channel type of healing: the energy came through my head and left through my mouth (sighing) or through my hand.

This morning I gathered the energy in my hand shaped like a cup, and then pushed it into the body, violently. And the energy did twice the work it used to do with the channel method.

Can you do it with my energy audios? Certainly. You put your hand where you intend to heal, shape your hand like a cup, and after you hear the sigh complete, you aggressively push the gathered energy into your body. Yay…

The avatar state energies don’t work that way, and the DNA capacity activator energies neither.

But the Big Bundle, and the hands-on healing energy I teach in the Self Healing Courses work famously this way.

I use the Big Bundle to do my distant healing, by the way.

And I only take on new clients with serious life threatening issues that the doctors haven’t been able to discover yet, but I can see through empathy… meaning: early stages.

I am slowly learning my lesson. I now include in my agreements that if you resist the energy, then you’ll need to pay for the energy you wasted… or all bets are off.

If, like with this current client, the time difference works out for me, I’ll find a time when you are asleep… so you can’t resist.

But, for example, if you are in Europe, I am not awake when you are likely asleep… unless you go to bed early.

Anyway, managing the healing energies is what some of my clients use to train their focus, to train their attention… This new ‘gather it first and then push it in’ method will make that practice easier too.

The methodology came from the Shadebound by David Estes… if you are curious.

If you are tired, if you have chapped lips, if your body cannot maintain decent cell hydration, if you have a loss of taste or smell… then get your health measurements.

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PS: By the way all the Dark Side energies are mostly undeclared commitment. Like the Evil Eye, Schadenfreunde, or someone wanting me to be wrong, sick, etc. Undeclared but real.

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar