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I was watching, a TV series on Netflix. My preferred genre is crime and crime fighting. This series is called White Collar. The main character is a charming, charismatic, good looking, intelligent young man.
After seeing almost three whole seasons’ worth, I looked up the cast on google. Found out that our guy is gay. I was surprised because I didn’t see any signs of gayness, which are, typically (my personal experience) being attention seeking, catty, gossipy, disloyal, etc.
Instead, our guy is quiet, reserved, loyal to the extreme, kind, and has a huge capacity to love.
He has qualities I appreciate in a person, except I have never seen these in a man. I would say, that these are the INNATE characteristics of a woman, except that I don’t know a woman who is loyal, a woman who is reserved, a woman who is kind. Surely my mother wasn’t like that. At all.
Instead, women are catty, backbiting, blaming, using, martyrs, and ENTITLED to be all that. A female writer explains the why and how of female behavior in an article I’ve read. I can’t find that article any more. But thanks to archive.org, you can still read it here
If this is what being a woman means, I don’t want to be a woman.
Of course, this is not what woman means, and yet, women participate in the power struggle as if having power over another had any value, had any dignity, had any ‘light’ in it.
In a world where women are objectified, it takes a stronger person, a stronger desire to earn your way, to become a human being, not just a woman.
It took a man to show me how to be a woman human being. I am most attracted by the loyalty bit… have never seen loyalty before, at least not consciously.
I have been wondering how to celebrate the holidays with you, instead of my usual way of enjoying that everyone is busy, so I can be by myself.
I have decided to give you a gift. When I asked some people what people, in their view, would want most for the holidays, the answers converged to ‘contentment’ and ‘peace of mind’.
I’ve decided to give you a copy of the Unconditional Love activator audio for $25. That is 50% off. But only till Sunday midnight. It would be smart to use it…NOW. Use coupon code UNC to get the discount.
Get the Unconditional Love activator for the holiday.
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