Most people, you, over time, prove untrustworthy.

It is really hard to decide who to trust. Most people, over time, prove untrustworthy. Doctors, lawyers, accountants, friends, spouses.

Oh, and the so-called teachers and gurus.

But Why? It is all because the level of ‘morality’ of homo sapiens is controlled ‘desire to receive for the self alone’ and the ‘fat dog syndrome’.

What is the ‘fat dog syndrome’?

It’s a log like a fat man syndrome: the dog eats as long as there is food… never experiences satiation, wants more and more and more.

So the fat dog syndrome is also about humans’ insatiable greed to amass more, and more… to get richer and richer. Deadly.

Not grow as a person, but get stuff… buy stuff… Same with ‘power’… authority, etc.

Desire to receive for the self alone is a Kabbalistic term. Kabbalah says that is the only evil there is.

Desire to receive for the self alone is fueled from the ‘Selfish Gene’… a theory that explains that the genes only consider the living thing a vehicle to carry around and provide for the survival of that Selfish Gene.

And, because there are billions of vehicles for different genes are out there, the genes are only interested in their own survival, not other genes’.

It is a competitive environment on the horizontal/competitive plane. The Selfish Gene is intent to get its own survival at the expense of others’ genes…

That ‘desire to receive for the self alone‘, is still the rule of survival in our days and age, not the rule we claim we have, cooperation, co-existence, brotherhood, unity, and many other words we say but not live by.

We live in the age of hypocrisy. Pretense. Lying.

The people in our lives, including the ‘authorities’ we should be able to trust, are in the game for themselves, and often for themselves only. For their own narrow interest, that often exclude your interest. Your interest is what you pay them for.

Nasty, eh?

So when it comes to getting guidance from somewhere, trusting is dangerous, silly, and also necessary… or you are really on your own. And given the level of awareness, given the level of ignorance on all levels of society, that may not be a good idea.

So here I am, some sort of a guru for many, sick, trying to regain my health.
Here I am creating food and supplements lists for a modest fee paying for my time

Can you trust me? Can I trust me?

Am I one of those shysters with desire to receive for the self alone?

So the past week I have been studying. I watch videos, buy and read ebooks.

Read, listen, and diligently muscletest: is this true? what is the truth value of this statement? does this conflict with what I have been saying?

It’s a lot of work, and it is very scary.

So far, I am happy to report, I have found no discrepancy between what has tested as true, and my recommendations.

On the other hand, even the best information hasn’t risen above 60% truth value… meaning 40% of a 60% truth value thing is not true.

The two areas I have been studying are circulatory health, and eye health.

Why those two? Because I have an issue of those, so I have more than just professional interest in studying those: my life, the quality of MY life depends on it.

The good news is: my food lists are accurate. Even if they tend to swing wildly from one side to the other.

The bad news is: they should come with an education… because how do you make yourself well if you use it stupidly: pick five items from the approximately 50 (average) number of items that you can eat, and try to live on those?

And how do you make a new food list work for yourself if you still live on packaged foods, restaurant food, sodas, etc?

One client ordered her first food list about five years ago. She was five years younger, and a lot healthier than she is now.

Strangly, she interpreted the food list as a license to eat Shrimp garlic in restaurants day in and day out.

She never learned to cook. And today she is a 50 year old who lives in a 70 year old’s body. Always ready to argue, fly into rage, go into scarcity mode where she is the victim.

Knowledge is power. But knowledge does nothing unless you do.

I heard that heart attack survivors, multiple heart bypass patients observe their lifestyle recommendations for only a few months. As long as the fear lasts.

My younger brother is a rare exception: after his quadruple bypass surgery he dropped the weight, stopped eating like a pig, and now he is lean and I guess: healthy.

My brother is the father of the bride, 69 years old…

But he is the exception.

I want clients like him. I want clients who use their motive power, their desire to live, to live a full life, because they have something to live for.

What you live for is entirely made up by you.

In reality there is no reason to live, and there is no reason to die. In reality you do what you do. But in your personal reality (created by your speaking, created by language) you can decide what you want to live for.

If you haven’t done that, you are like that heart attack survivor, making changes for the short term, like every fix in every area, and then return to business as usual.

I see this in nearly every student: they are nearsighted, and can’t even think beyond the fixing… No vision… No reason to live.

It is not easy to invent a reason to live and then live for that reason.

Your family won’t support it either. Society won’t support it. So you are on your own, and you’ll need your word to continue to exist, continue to be a big enough reason to live… or you’ll lose it.

A community is ideal for this. But first you need to enroll them of your word, of your intention, or they will continue relating to you as you were before you spoke.

On my site, for my students, the Discussion Forum is a good place to learn how you are heard, how what you say influences other members’ listening for you.

Others’ listening can make you a king or a pauper.

Start with these semi-strangers from your fellow ‘Sophie-heads’, lol. They will be more generous in their listening of you than people who think they already ‘know’ you. They, the people in your world have already decided that you are full of sh*t… That your word is cheap… because it has been. Full of it.

Lots of talk… no action.

But with regards to what to live for, for what purpose, you may not have said anything… Probably you have been mum. And others had the liberty to make up a story about you.

Practice enrolling others in your reason to live… or maybe any reason you wold find useful to live in others… Intentions, what direction you want your life to go.

In an upcoming webinar workshop we’ll do this work, under my guidance. Stay posted.

But before you can be invited, you need to have been my client for a while, and prove that at least you mean business, when it comes to making yourself the best you possible.

One possible path to become your best is to find out how you could get well.

Your entry, for the next four days is to find out your eating style. Behind that you’ll find my most… EVER discounted offers for further health offers. But you can only see them if you BUY the ‘What is your eating style’ for $10.

Make sure you send me a picture of your face: I connect to you through your eyes.


Go and read the gory details, lol
If you buy: just give me time. I cannot do more of those than just a few in a day, mostly because all that muscletesting kills my hands… I’ll send your order in email when it’s ready.

And then that passes the ball into your hands… We’ll see what you do with it. Hold it, run with it, or drop it.

Try to make that the beginning of the rest of your life… because it is.

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar