As difficult as dirty dishes can be, they’re even worse when you let them sit for a while. And the longer they sit, the harder they are to clean.

This is life. Something that is potentially easy to clean up right after it happens – an unkind word to your father, a lie to your best friend, an insensitivity to your girlfriend – can become a difficult mess if you don’t deal with it now.

Do the dishes today.

I have been thinking about Kaizen a lot. Kaizen can be the saving grace for a lot of people, because Kaizen is a way of life, a non-threatening way, but it is an awake way, and most of us are not awake, get jolted out of our sleepwalking by big things only. I am awake, and Kaizen is for me.

So I decided to use Kaizen to ease back into exercising. Since I stopped exercising, my face aged 10-20 years. That is a lot. I used to have no wrinkles, now I have folds, and wrinkles inside the folds… not pretty.

I have no special occasion to be pretty at, I just think that looking into the mirror should be a joyous occasion, not an occasion to berate myself.

So I am now doing 15 seconds of the exercise I used to do. I am happy. It is starting to show on my face. Hm.

Another Kaizen thing: in airplane bathrooms there is a sign that says something like this: would you be so kind as to use your paper towel to clean the sink before you throw it away?

Very Kaizen. Imagine going to the bathroom and someone’s soapy dirty washwater is still in the sink. (The airplane sink stopper needs to be manually lifted, otherwise it stops the water from emptying…) I would never wash my hand again on an airplane. But with that little Kaizen note, most 99% of the passengers follow the instructions, and everyone washes their hand. (I think that sign also reminds people to wash their hands, which many people don’t see a reason for… ).

And the third Kaizen example I read about in a Kaizen book, and it is about Toyota. The factory. They learned Kaizen from Americans… who would have thought… from Americans.

At Toyota, manufacturing cars happens on the assembly line. Nothing new there. In a normal assembly line everyone is concerned only about their part of the assembly, and the occasional errors are noticed and corrected, or not noticed and not corrected at the quality control station.

Toyota’s then CEO installed a rope switch above every workstation along the assembly line, where workers were asked to pull the rope every time they noticed an error in the work on the half-assembled car in front of them. The pull stopped the assembly line, they corrected the error, and pulled again to re-start…

It was a heretic idea, going counter with mass production. American auto manufacturers, that relied on quality control, had thousands of cars recalled, paid billions in restitution for tiny errors that weren’t corrected right after they happened.

Toyota went on to become the most reliable car. 250K cars are still sold and they run the highways: it is commonplace, while even an ‘error-free’ American car would be proud to run till 200K.

Which leads me to the ‘boundaries’ part.

It is still my cat that is on my mind. Or my previous failed relationship. Or my previous failed New Year resolution. Where, in all circumstances, I ignored, put up with, tolerated, shut a blind eye to a small aberration, a small violation of my boundaries, a little mistake, a little skipping… and they all became the core of a snow ball and destroyed an otherwise hopeful relationship, or my health, or my results.

Do the dishes soon after they get dirty. And stay awake. I have learned my lesson.

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How Evil Grows on Planet Earth: a Feedback on my request to buy my amazon kindle book

In this article I teach you something about yourself that you probably didn’t notice, haven’t known, a way you unwittingly and unintentionally grow Evil and the Dark Side, that you so valiantly fight in other ways…

You can’t catch what you don’t see.

Now you will. Now you can catch it.

I have told this story many times, but I will tell you again. Good stories can be told many times.

Some 2,000 years ago lived a famous rabbi in the Land of Israel, Akiva Ben Joseph, aka Rabbi Akiva ca.17–ca.137 CE.

He was 40 years old when he married a woman who saw in him more than he saw in himself. She encouraged him to spend all his time studying the Law of the Lord, because in that age that was the highest thing one could aspire for.

He left to study and he was good. He came back after ten years. She encouraged him to go for another ten years. He became a very famous rabbi, probably the most famous of all.

Akiva taught thousands of students

on one occasion, twenty-four thousand students of his died in a plague. His five main, last remaining students were Judah bar Ilai, Rabbi Meir, Rabbi Eleazar ben Shammua, Jose ben Halafta and Shimon bar Yochai (the author of The Zohar, the book of Splendour).

When all those students spare the few died, he did a lot of soul-searching. He felt that he missed something that all those students died.

What he found is simple: he had based his teaching on knowing the word of God but missed teaching the spirit of God: Love your neighbor as yourself. His students were very knowledgeable, they were charitable, they did good. But with their fellow students they were competitive.

They had a scarcity mindset: there is only so much success to go around. The idea of a limited pie of wealth, success, wellness, prosperity, fame, etc. If you get more, someone has to get less.

The thinking goes like this: if they succeed then I will be less successful.

In the area of money it would be: if I give them I will have less. If the make more, there is less left for me.

In Kabbalistic terms this is called “desire to receive for the self alone” and it flies in the face of the unlimited nature of the Universe, and it’s an insult to the Creator.

So how does that same exact thing look in today’s day and age?

We live in a do-good society. People pride themselves in helping the less fortunate, the sick, the lazy, the dumb, and the entitled.

They give of their time, their used stuff (if there is a tax write-off, especially), maybe even money. They create projects for them. They collect stuff for them. They create websites for do-gooders… It’s the in-thing.

They set themselves up to give “down.” Maybe, occasionally, they give up, like drive a famous guru, or something like that. On condition, of course, that they get close to greatness… like in case of a guru.

If you look deeper, it is all about the giver, how they look, how they feel about themselves. They don’t really care… they only care about themselves.

Giving horizontally? To give to people that if you helped them, the other could achieve real greatness? God forbid.

Whether you know it or not, you are harboring a scarcity mentality. You are afraid to let another grow beyond you.

I heard a behavior-defining saying from a famous Hungarian standup comic when I was around 30: life is like being a fence post: If you stand out they will hammer you into the ground to be level with all the others.

I just understood it completely today.

I looked at the report from Amazon on who bought the kindle book in answer to my request to support me, for 99 cents.

A total of 13 copies sold.

Two copies sold to two of my students: both are the most extraordinarily committed people anyone ever wanted to teach.

11 copies sold to people who don’t know me other than from visiting my site.

None of my friends, none of my other students, none of my fellow-students (I am a student too, lol) bought it to support me.

When I went to visit their bodies empathically to get clues, I found a mix of resentment and envy.

Exactly the same feelings and attitude that allowed Rabbi Akiva’s students to perish in the plague.

Any feeling or thought of competing, comparison, envy, the desire to tear someone down, lowers your vibration.

Desire to receive for the self alone is what we call evil. The Dark Side is exclusively made up of that, desire to receive for the self alone. Wanting what belongs to another or denying another the emotional support in order to keep them small, down and out, cut them to size.

I don’t care whether you buy my book or not. Ultimately it is just a collection of articles you can read on this very blog. Even the pictures are the same. I get 35 cents before taxes, so even if I sold one to every reader of this blog I would not pay one month’s worth of rent from all the money I get.

But I do care whether the people who read my blog, learn from me, or call us friends, are only there to keep me down, to build the Dark Side, to work against the Light.

I care about that.

Please start watching your feelings, watching your attitudes, and start catching yourself killing life, and supporting death.

When you get disgusted with yourself enough, maybe you’ll be ready to join the light.

PS: I have to admit, I’ve taken it personally that the amount of support didn’t match the amount of value I think I have been giving.

But, of course,

1. value is only in the eye of the recipient
2. perception of value is proportionate to the amount of effort one was ask to obtain something: here: none… therefore no value
3. by making my articles available for no cost I am also adding to the Dark Side because I encourage the moochers and the looters, possibly yourself to continue mooching and looting
4. the fact that I write these articles to get clear and not for you isn’t an excuse. It’s time to go back to the drawing board and force YOU to put out if you want my stuff… hm. What do you think?

PPS: you can still get my book on amazon. if you don’t have a kindle, send me your receipt and I’ll send you a pdf. here is the link to amazon: my amazon book for 99 cents: The Grand Experiment. I will be grateful and you’ll be able to feel better about yourself.

The real accomplishment is to catch yourself… you can’t catch what you don’t see.

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Cuddling, giggling… both are good for your soul.

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David Hawkins Muscletesting Vs. Muscletesting While Connected To Source

I am getting a lot of questions about muscletesting. Most questions are about how reliable the test is.

Unfortunately, the way David R. Hawkins teaches muscletesting, the test is not reliable.

For years, I could ask one question and ask the same question two minutes later, and the answer would be the opposite. I would say that is not reliable.

When I started to work with Theta Healing, I found the same level of unreliability. Same question, different answers. Bummer.

I observed my chiropractor always come up with the same remedy to recommend: the one he got the most commission on. hm.

Then when I really connected to Source, the situation changed. Now I have complete certainty… except certain areas, the future, and other spying-like inquiries are not permitted me to access.

Today I claim that David Hawkins’ muscletesting works as long as you are connected to Source while you are testing, but doesn’t work reliably if you are not.

You see, most things you do come from the ego, or the name it is better known by, the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind, the 99% of the mind that is the iceberg below the water level. You only have access to the subconscious mind’s content when you watch your actions, and when, accidentally, you catch some evil thoughts.

Although your body is wise, although your body knows what is good for it, and what isn’t, in the split second that passes after the question, your subconscious mind overrides the body’s answer.

In muscletesting you really only have a split second window where the body actually speaks, and not longer. Time the muscletest to catch that split second is not easy.

What happens after that split second? the subconscious mind speaks.

If this weren’t the case, you wouldn’t reach for the chocolate, you wouldn’t stay up too late, you wouldn’t do the things that are bad for your body. You would be able to say no to the things that are bad for you.

But unfortunately, you won’t be able to get an accurate reading, unless you find a way to disengage the subconscious mind. ¹

Muscletesting while in conscious, beta brain wave mode, ² is very unreliable.

So the task is to disengage the subconscious, and the Tangerine Method of Connecting is perfect for that.

There are three levels of connecting, and the first level is already disengaging the ego.

It takes practice

1. to be able to “multitask” while connected
2. to be able to notice when the ego re-engages
3. disengage the ego again to get a correct reading.

When you do the David Hawkins muscletesting, i.e. there are two people involved, the questioner needs to be in the Tangerine State, and the person muscletested should not know the question their body is answering.

In the case of the David Hawkins muscletesting we are dealing with two subconscious minds, and it is important that both are disengaged.

The questioner disengages their mind with the Tangerine Method of Connecting, level 1, and they then ask the question in their head, without saying it out loud. The person tested then doesn’t know what the question is, so their body is free to express the truth.

The one-person way of testing, the way I teach it, requires only you to be in the Tangerine State.

In that state, if you are truly connected for about 30-60 seconds before you ask any questions, the fact that you are connected to Source, also means that you are connected to All-of-It, i.e. to another person.

To be truly connected to All-of-It, you need to be connected on Level Two.

It is understandable why. You are going to access the “database” of the most intimate details of another person. You can’t just barge in there, with your ego freely reigning… it would be a deadly world where you can do that, wouldn’t it.

You could cause death, destruction, and Source would never agree to that, never land you a hand.

So that addresses the last question: your intention.

This is not automatic magic, as David Hawkins muscletesting claims. This is a serious moral issue.

Unless your state of mind is “desire-for-the-sake-of-sharing” your results will be unreliable. ³

Remember, fundamental law number one is never take away from one to give it to another. Not stuff, not honor, dignity, freedom, love, etc. Not anything.

If the muscletesting is to decide a bet, there is a winner and there is a loser. If the muscletesting is to make someone wrong, look bad, then the muscletesting is not serving a higher purpose, and it will give you faulty and untrue results.

Now, how can you learn and master being connected to Source? The Saturday connection classes are perfect for that. I make you do different challenges while connected, which will prepare you to do muscletesting and get reliable results.

If you want to learn more about how to stay in the “desire-for-the-sake-of-sharing” mindset, please comment below. If I get more than 10 people requesting, I’ll create a webinar to teach specifically that, so you don’t have to wait weeks to get it.

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Want More Energy? Want To Get More Out Of Life? Awaken Your Sexuality! Really!

I have discovered that sexuality can be awakened by directing Source energy to the sexual organs.

Now, why would I be so excited about that? After all we live in an oversexed society… right?

Right.

But the society is oversexed because of manipulation, not because we were “designed” this way!

One of the most important books I have ever read was Michel Foucault’s The History of Sexuality. It is a difficult read, but I was hooked early on: I have a soft spot for sexuality, if you haven’t noticed, lol.

I read only one of the four(?) volumes, volume 2.

In that book he tells the reader how sexuality is being used by the powers that be to play 3-card Monte with humanity. ⁴

Foucault say that by turning sex into the topic of conversation, people

1. get busy thinking about sex
2. start having less sex, or less satisfying sex in reality
3. lose touch with the enormous energy that is stored in human sexuality and it becomes unavailable to them.
4. they are too pre-ccupied and too weak to fight for their freedoms or stand up for themselves.

Sports figures, before an important event, are warned by their coaches to refrain from sex. Why? Because the sexual energy is a vehicle for the soul to move you.

Let me explain: the size of your desire will ultimately determine how much you get in life.

Imagine yourself being at a dinner where you need to bring your plate or bowl if you want to eat. If you bring a big bowl, you can eat a lot. If you bring a saucer… you got the picture, right? The bowl and the saucer are vessels of desire.

Most of us are walking around in life with a thimble size vessel.

We further reduce the size by always consuming (fulfilling) sexual desire… never increasing the fire. By eating even when we are not hungry. By picking up the phone to talk, texting, sending an email, buying stuff… whenever a thimble-sized desire accumulates.

Our digestive fire, our sexual fire, our intellectual fire, our emotional fire get smaller and smaller… it works a lot like batteries.

A new battery can hold a full charge and release it in let’s say 4-5 hours. Then, every time you plug the appliance in before the battery is fully empty, or every time you charge it only enough to be usable, you reduce the amount of charge the battery can hold.

One of my laptops is now able to go on battery power for exactly 2 minutes.

So, what do you do with a tired, corrupted battery?

You can let it run empty, then recharge it fully, then let it run empty… until it learns a new trick… and it does.

The same is the method with the other tired and corrupted faculties of yours. Sexual energy, hunger, intellectual and emotional hunger.

I have mentioned this in my “Passion” article, and I got a lot of feedback from my students. They can’t see themselves able to change.

So, what else can you do to rekindle and restore the original vessel of sexual desire and energy?

At the time of writing that article I didn’t know. I know now. You can actually restore the battery to new… like factories do all the time.

10 days ago I started to give myself Source energy on my sexual organs. I have experienced

1. increased sensation there… good news! 🙂
2. increased imagination… I have had quite a few wet dreams since then
3. increased sensitivity
4. increased mental sharpness
5. and markedly decreased craving for food, conversation, chocolate, sleep, etc.
6. my ability to work longer without getting tired is off the charts

As an empath, I can’t really feel what the Source energy (light) is doing… but…

Last Saturday I had five women on the Connection call and I did a long sexual healing meditation with them. That “treatment” repeated a few times would send these women over the moon.

Last Sunday I did a 40-minute sexual healing session with a male friend of mine over the phone, and could clearly feel how the light was warming up, returning aliveness, changing color and texture of the different regions, including the nether regions.

I am going to do more experiments, and if they are as effective as I predict they are going to be, I’ll be starting to do regular sexual healing classes: separate for men and women.

It seems to me that you need that energy, you need that fire. And the soul definitely needs you to have it.

You can’t participate in this project unless you first learn to connect. Classes are on Saturdays. Click here to register. It admits you to all the classes on Saturdays

PS: If you think that your partner needs it, not you, take a long hard look at yourself, and sign up to learn to connect. Your partner will want to find out what you did… that is what you want, right?

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If you ever wanted to get the Unconditional Love Activator but didn’t want to pay seven bucks, here is your chance to get it for 99 cents.

In my new book on Kindle, The Grand Experiment, there is a link to the Activator. All you have to pay is the 99 cents on Kindle.
If you don’t have a Kindle, you can view it on the Kindle PC edition…

https://www.amazon.com/The-Grand-Experiment-ebook/dp/B006K6EI9C/

Easy.

Now, why would you want to get the Unconditional Love Activator?

Well, this is why:

The Unconditional Love Activation is Your First Step To Freedom, Power, Purpose, And Self-Expression

When You Feel You Are Loved, Appreciated -Unconditionally – Life Stops Being An Uphill Struggle

Before the activation, you do stuff so that people like you, accept you, so you can feel useful and ok.
After the activation, you know. Not with your conscious mind, instead you know it with your whole being.

All the needing to’s, having to’s, wanting to’s (craving) and should’s disappear and whether you do anything or not, you feel good about yourself, and about your life.

That is a whole different starting point for a day… you have power. You can be with how it is, even if you think that it could be changed. And then, if you feel like it, you change stuff, do stuff, and your life starts to expand, and you in it.

My money didn’t start to flow until I got that activator.
I could not say no, until I got that activator.
I was a busybody, which, for a spiritual teacher, is a real bad thing.
I was a know-it-all, until I got that activator…

https://www.amazon.com/The-Grand-Experiment-ebook/dp/B006K6EI9C

Apart from occasional glitches when the old machine gets activated by some unexpected incident, life has been smooth, I have had no hunger for money, for success, for love, for interest… and all of those have started to flow towards me.

I didn’t need them. It seems that need repels what you want. Want repels them too.

So, that’s why I recommend that you get this activator.

Now, this activator has two parts:

1. you need to learn to connect to Source on level 2. There are classes throughout the week to learn this. No charge.
2. your activator comes in an audio or video format.

Go and get the kindle book.

It will change your life.

The Unconditional Activator works best if you do it with some regularity, weekly, monthly, daily… your choice.

The day you get it will be the first day of the rest of your life.

https://www.amazon.com/The-Grand-Experiment-ebook/dp/B006K6EI9C/

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Report on the Healing Meditation… The Good, The Bad, The Interesting and the Exciting

Four nights ago, on Tuesday, we had our first Healing Meditation session.

It was a first for all the participant, and it was a first for me.

I didn’t know what I was doing, I trusted myself to Source to tell me what to do when I was supposed to do it.

We started the way we start every meditation/connecting session: We found ourselves. Our physical bodies, our thoughts, our memories, our ego… so we can be observers to all of those.

There were seven people on the call. I felt everyone’s pain, everyone’s emotions…

I felt an overwhelming majority had pain in their left arm or shoulder.

I told each in attendance where to put their hand… I had made a pact with Source that placing the hand is directing the Light to go to that area.

I put my hand on my crotch: my hip pain originates from there.

Here is the feedback:

I got three people reporting pain in their left arm and shoulder. None of them felt it when I felt it on the call. When I visit them individually, the pain is there.

How come I felt it and they didn’t? Did the meditation cause the pain? Good question, right? After all if Source energy causes pain… who needs it, right?

The truth is this: and empath feels what’s there 100 times stronger than you do. If I feel pain in your left arm or your left shoulder, the physiological conditions for severe pain are already there, they just haven’t manifested. So sending Light to it will first aggravate the pain, so you pay attention.

The purpose of pain in the body is to be an early warning signal: you are doing something that doesn’t serve you: Stop It!

Your left hand side has an important secondary function: heart troubles will show up there, way before there is danger. If you wait until you feel the pain… it is usually too late. Especially if you are a man.

Men are less likely to feel anything, due to their upbringing, and due to being left brain dominant. It is hard to feel and think at the same time.

These were the good, and the bad. A package deal.

It’s good, because you now know. Giving yourself more light there, and changing your position, quit using the arm-rest in your car or at your desk chair usually solves your problem.

Bad if any discomfort will make you quit… but you would have quit anyway, so don’t worry about it. It is how you roll… we could say. Really it’s your machine… But if at this point you are your machine… then there is no choice.

And here is the unexpected and the exciting:

The healing meditation, used on the crotch, returns the aliveness to your neglected sexual organ and returns aliveness to you.

It is a kind of quickening I did not expect. I am 64 years old, and have given up on being a woman. A live, vibrant, functioning woman. This meditation is changing that. Wow.

I am thinking of starting a special meditation class just for the sexual awakening: many couple that stayed together for the children, find themselves distant after all these years. Wouldn’t it be great to return them to intimacy and love at this stage of the game?

I think so.

And for us, women, to be able to experience the intimacy and the soothing togetherness of a relationship would be attractive again. After all this is one of the beautiful aspects life can offer, but without an aliveness in the female region this is not attractive, even bothersome. My experience… but I think it is universal.

Awakening the sexual person within, gaining power, energy and affinity through it is good for anyone at any age. It is not demanding. It is a pulsating power force that is now allowing to participate in life in more areas and with more zest than before the awakening.

Tevye in the Fiddle of The Roof comes to mind, singing to his wife: “Do you love me?” The wife answering: “I bore five daughters for you”… Tevye: “But do you love me?” “I was and mend your clothes…” Tevye: “But do you love me?”

After this meditation Tevye’s wife would have answered “Yes” faster.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_y9F5St4j0
If you agree, disagree, hate me, love me, please let me hear from you.

PS: Martha Graham, Mother of Contemporary Dance, speaking to friend and colleague, Agnes de Mille:

“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it.”

She was talking to YOU.

PPS: you need to have completed at least one connection checking webinar to be invited to the Healing Meditation class. https://training.by-sophie.com/index.php?/register/hm to register. Classes are Saturday 9 am and 9 pm for the connection class.

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Becoming A Match To Your Dreams: The Key To A Fulfilled Life

This article is an open Critique Of Coaching as if you knew How To Use The Law Of Attraction

I have two coaches that I work with. One of them, we coach back and forth. She is my marketing coach, I am her mindset coach.

In spite the fact that I coach her, she produces great results with my coaching, the mindset she teaches to her students is the same garden variety bs that is littering the planet at this day and age.

From my words you can get that I am a little bit pissed. No, I lied, I am quite pissed.

Why? Because what they teach is a distraction, instead of, what a coach is supposed to teach, a motivation, a support, a way to get things accomplished. A support to a fulfilled life.

So what do my dear coaches teach? Well… it is easier for me to tell you how they are on the calls the I am on, or the calls and classes I listen in on.

They label everything as negativity that isn’t rah-rah, pipe dream, optimistic, positive thinking.

If I say: “that is going to be hard work”: they attack me. They say: it is going to be hard work if I say so, meaning that that is bad. “So? I say. I am ready to do hard work. I am already rolling my sleeves up. I love hard work. It makes me feel like I am accomplishing something.”

Freeloading is for freeloaders: they are never happy. Never satisfied. Because they never produced anything, never accomplished anything. That is not for me.

To be fulfilled, to be satisfied, you need to have worked, possibly hard, for that accomplishment. Very satisfying. You should try some time.

Of course if you are a slave and work only for money, or for somebody’s interest, then any work, even light work is bad… you are not up to anything. Bad for you.

I wonder if the reason the United States of America is losing its foothold on the top of the world is because it is not politically correct to work for what you want.

But, I can tell you, from countless examples I have seen, If and when fortune falls on your lap, you won’t enjoy it beyond the 3-day bragging and glee period.

Your soul isn’t going to love life, because life is boring, life is blah without accomplishment. The kind of accomplishment that make you sweat, make you grow as a human being, and uses up every ounce of your energy, brilliance and endurance.

A master once said: “It is not the millions I am interested in: it is who I need to become, to have those millions.”

As far as my coaching clients and students go: if they say: ‘this is going to be hard work,’ I rejoice. That sentence indicates to me that they have seen what it takes to accomplish, they have said yes to that, and they are eager to start.

Now, if some Providence comes to their support along the way: the accomplishment is still theirs.

On the other hand, if someone handed the exact same results to them, they would be like the rest of aspiring entrepreneurs: unhappy, dissatisfied, and looking for the next shiny object, the next exciting thing… adrenalin rush… instead of accomplishment and fulfillment.

When I say to my coaches: I am sure the potential associates won’t like my style, they want me to change what I am saying… change it to something positive.

Why change what I am saying, instead of working with me on my style, so I can attract people that today wouldn’t like me? Boggles the mind why this is called coaching… isn’t the purpose of coaching to make me do what it takes to get what I want to get… even if it involves changing myself? And hard work. And the potential to fail, to make mistakes, to fall flat on my face…?

I read in a book this week that people that of all the people surveyed, the people that have the highest self esteem are mass murderers. They esteem themselves higher than others, and therefore have no qualms killing them.

In the same book I read that 70% of US students say they are quite good at math, where only 25% of South Korean students judge themselves such.

South Korea scores best in the world in math proficiency in school, while the US scores somewhere at the bottom of the list.

It is time to be willing to look at others’ esteem of you, instead of your own. For some of you this esteem will be higher than your own. You needed that reality check.

But for most of you, others’ esteem of you, your grades, your results, will show that you are pitifully far from your own estimation of yourself, and unless you change, you will never be satisfied, never be fulfilled. Because without results there is no satisfaction, without accomplishment there is no fulfillment.

Many of you strive to help the less fortunate, the less smart, the less endowed. Are you doing this so you can be the one-eyed king in the land of the blind?

I admit, I used to be like that. Not any more. There was no fulfillment in dazzling the dumb, being called brilliant by someone who didn’t understand a word… fool’s gold, that’s what that is.

Instead, try setting your eyes on a goal that in uncertain but inspiring, that is going to take all you got, that can’t be accomplished without you growing, expanding, and becoming a match to your dreams.

PS: Try it out. If I ask you to make a list of your accomplishments: aren’t you going to value the ones that took a lot of you? Test it out, I dare you!

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Healing Meditation: vibrational frequency: 850

I had a major breakthrough yesterday. I say it was a breakthrough because

• I was committed to it,
• it wasn’t going to happen in the normal course of life and
• because the result I hoped for happened.

Although I am an empath, and although I have been evolving into a full blown medical intuitive, I haven’t been able to help myself.

When I visit my own body I feel too much. I feel the pain everywhere, and it confuses the issue.

I have been thinking of going to another medical intuitive… but I haven’t.

The issue is my right leg. It hurts. Nothing, so far, has been able to make it better.

It has an emotional issue, but I am not even sure what it is. Great coach, you say, and you are right… 🙁

Anyway, I have been going to the Tr. blessings hoping that whatever he is doing going to help.

Tr. just got married, so most of his thoughts are around sex… and he giggles about it like a 16 year old girl. But I got lucky, although I don’t like him.

Last night he decided to send all the light to the sexual area. How do I know it? Because that’s where it went. In addition to that I had my hand in that area: that is the epicenter of my pain.

It was an extraordinary discovery. Feeling all that intrusive light pouring into that area, wreaking havoc. Prickly, painful, bubbly, hot, cold… hard to describe the feeling. A total of almost 6 minutes. It started on the top of the head and then it jumped to the loins.

Maybe it wasn’t premeditated, but Tr.’s attention went there. Maybe he needed a little energy there, who know. But it lead to a huge breakthrough.

When it was done, I had a heart to heart with Source and asked if it can duplicate it.

The answer was yes, on one condition. That I don’t push the energy. That is easy enough, I answered.

This morning I tested it with my Daily Connection group, then with “teacher’s pet” Charlie, and it works like a charm.

I know many people want healing, and I need more experiments, so I decided to do a healing meditation session every Tuesday at 9 pm EST.

Participation is free, but you must have attended at least one Saturday connection clinic class, or I won’t accept you.

I will send an invitation to the people that have participated in the Saturday classes (I have record of that) and you then can register to a Tuesday class and enjoy this amazing meditation.

I am not willing to teach you connection there: it is not fair to other people.

The meditation is minimum 10 minutes, maximum 30 minutes. You can disconnect after 10 minutes without damaging yourself. It takes practice to stay connected for 30 minutes.

So, if interested in healing, sign up to the Saturday 9 am or 9 pm Connection Clinic class, attend, and then you will get an invite. Once you register, you can come to as many Tuesday or Saturday classes as you can. Both are free.

https://raise.yourvibration.com to sign up to the Saturday classes. If you are a regular, you’ll get an email today.

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Enjoy this amazing breakthrough.

PS: I’ll post the 10-minute “maiden voyage” first time ever healing meditation recording… so you have a sense what it is like. If you can’t connect, it won’t do anything for you, in fact it is probably annoying or boring. So if you are not connected: I have warned you! lol

Here is the link https://yourvibration.com/832/sample-healing-meditation-recording/

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Press the arrow to listen to the recording of the healing meditation. You can also adjust the sound level.

It is a whole different experience doing the healing meditation live, but this gives you a peek… you must connect easily. Learn to connect https://raise.yourvibration.com

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