As difficult as dirty dishes can be, they’re even worse when you let them sit for a while. And the longer they sit, the harder they are to clean.

This is life. Something that is potentially easy to clean up right after it happens – an unkind word to your father, a lie to your best friend, an insensitivity to your girlfriend – can become a difficult mess if you don’t deal with it now.

Do the dishes today.

I have been thinking about Kaizen a lot. Kaizen can be the saving grace for a lot of people, because Kaizen is a way of life, a non-threatening way, but it is an awake way, and most of us are not awake, get jolted out of our sleepwalking by big things only. I am awake, and Kaizen is for me.

So I decided to use Kaizen to ease back into exercising. Since I stopped exercising, my face aged 10-20 years. That is a lot. I used to have no wrinkles, now I have folds, and wrinkles inside the folds… not pretty.

I have no special occasion to be pretty at, I just think that looking into the mirror should be a joyous occasion, not an occasion to berate myself.

So I am now doing 15 seconds of the exercise I used to do. I am happy. It is starting to show on my face. Hm.

Another Kaizen thing: in airplane bathrooms there is a sign that says something like this: would you be so kind as to use your paper towel to clean the sink before you throw it away?

Very Kaizen. Imagine going to the bathroom and someone’s soapy dirty washwater is still in the sink. (The airplane sink stopper needs to be manually lifted, otherwise it stops the water from emptying…) I would never wash my hand again on an airplane. But with that little Kaizen note, most 99% of the passengers follow the instructions, and everyone washes their hand. (I think that sign also reminds people to wash their hands, which many people don’t see a reason for… ).

And the third Kaizen example I read about in a Kaizen book, and it is about Toyota. The factory. They learned Kaizen from Americans… who would have thought… from Americans.

At Toyota, manufacturing cars happens on the assembly line. Nothing new there. In a normal assembly line everyone is concerned only about their part of the assembly, and the occasional errors are noticed and corrected, or not noticed and not corrected at the quality control station.

Toyota’s then CEO installed a rope switch above every workstation along the assembly line, where workers were asked to pull the rope every time they noticed an error in the work on the half-assembled car in front of them. The pull stopped the assembly line, they corrected the error, and pulled again to re-start…

It was a heretic idea, going counter with mass production. American auto manufacturers, that relied on quality control, had thousands of cars recalled, paid billions in restitution for tiny errors that weren’t corrected right after they happened.

Toyota went on to become the most reliable car. 250K cars are still sold and they run the highways: it is commonplace, while even an ‘error-free’ American car would be proud to run till 200K.

Which leads me to the ‘boundaries’ part.

It is still my cat that is on my mind. Or my previous failed relationship. Or my previous failed New Year resolution. Where, in all circumstances, I ignored, put up with, tolerated, shut a blind eye to a small aberration, a small violation of my boundaries, a little mistake, a little skipping… and they all became the core of a snow ball and destroyed an otherwise hopeful relationship, or my health, or my results.

Do the dishes soon after they get dirty. And stay awake. I have learned my lesson.

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Here are the changes:

1. We eliminate connection calls for now, and replace them with Connection Drill Calls.

it is free whether you are connected or not… and it’s about mastering your attention, your eyes, your muscle coordination, your will, your connection, feel that you are connected, connect and reconnect at will, step back… Drills. For 50 minutes. Free if you buy any of the beginner products, like the Unconditional Love Activator or the Video teaching how to muscletest yourself

Three calls a week

Saturdays 9 am, Sundays 9 pm, Wednesday 4 pm

If you have bought those products or as soon as you do, I’ll add you to the notification list. You’ll get an email about your webinar registration. You can come to any of those calls, it will be the same webinar link every time.

2. Moved around the Energy Healing Calls: new schedule: Wednesdays 3 pm, Saturdays 9 pm, Tuesdays 9 pm.

Energy Healing Calls are paid calls, $13.99 a week, and there is an option to pay per call, or pay for the same call each week… Check out the options.

You can’t start on this level, you need to learn to connect, although I am planning to make one of these calls available even if someone can’t connect, especially if you need serious and urgent healing.

The results have been staggering. The most amazing result we’ve had when the energy squeezed a large gallstone out of the gallbladder, and many years’ worth of pain and nausea disappeared in a 10 minute session. Amazing.

The energies are intelligent and Tree of Life: all I am doing is calling them down, I am not doing the healing, I am not even telling the energy what to do. But because I am an empath, I can see clearly what it’s doing, and report back to the participants on the call. Very exciting.

Tonight, July 22 we’ll still have an energy healing call.

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What’s happening on yourvibration.com

By now you should be used to this: I screwed up. lol

By the way, most people screw up, but they won’t admit it. Given my soul correction, it is very important that I do.

I have been so inundated with Dark Side attacks, minimum six hours a day, suggesting – through feelings – that I should quit, die, give up, etc… I am not very surprised that I have made a mistake.

When you get ‘guidance’ it often comes from the Dark Side. You need to muscletest while connected to Source. When you are not connected, the results of the muscletest come mostly from the Dark Side.

For about a week I did everything seemingly from my own head, and I didn’t muscletest. Unfortunately no one woke me up, not even some self-proclaimed marketers: it had to be reality that woke me up… that is always the worst. Lol

In these two weeks the number of visitors went down by 99%. It means instead of hundreds, there have been only tens. 9 today…

That is not what I had in MIND when I made the changes!

So, back to Soul’s guidance vs. Dark Side suggestions.

This morning, I woke up with the direct knowledge of what I have to do. The past three nights I was begging the Soul to get me guidance. But I guess, Soul wanted to teach me a lesson and let me hit bottom.

As a rule, most people don’t change direction until they hit bottom. In addition to that, they fight hitting bottom with all their might. They are flailing for a long time, instead of hitting bottom.

Let us first see what mistakes I made. What were the specific Dark Side suggestions that I implemented that caused the site to hit bottom?

1. First I made everyone pay for learning how to connect. As a result we’ve been 3-9 people on the calls, the same 3-9 people.

2. Then I decided that I’ll make it mandatory to sign up to a free membership site in order to read my posts.

Bad idea. Google simply stopped referring people, and the site hit bottom… lol.

It’s ok, we’ll recover. But it is a great case study.

So in addition to keeping up with my soul correction and baring all my mistakes to force myself to humility, I would like to teach you, through my example,

1. how most people make decisions
2. how to correct it by listening to guidance.
3. how to keep your spirits up (I’ll figure this out as I am writing it… at this points my spirits are quite low)

Returning everything how it was before I made the changes won’t work. Why? Because it was a free for all… and I got no respect. So changes need to be made, but how?

My work is to teach people to connect to Source so they can activate their divine being while connected. But, at the same time I need to make a living, pay my rent, eat, etc.

I am thinking to give everyone – who buys a beginning level product, like the ‘Unconditional Love Activator’, the ‘Muscletesting videos’, the ‘Heart Connection video Course’, or the ‘Soaring video Course: How to Be and Everyday Magician’ two weeks opportunity to learn to connect.

The sessions are 15 minute long, and only Saturday 7:30 pm and the Wednesday 5:30 pm are available. These calls are not available for advanced students. The calls teach the connection, and teach stepping back. Each call has 4 15-minute segments. People can stay on for the whole hour, or jump of after 15 minutes.

If you buy any of these products, you have two weeks to learn to connect. After that you will be transferred to paying classes: you can cancel any time.

The other issue, the membership site, needs to be solved by making it all readable.

OK, so do I feel better? I feel beaten up.

Will this work? Source says it will.

When will this be ready? By the end of July it will be all up and running.

This time I’ll go with my eyes open… Who knows, maybe this suggestion also came from the Dark Side? Ugh… We shall see.

Want to learn to connect to Source? Here is the link

It’s free.

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This is important to me. No world can be healthy if women are not allowed to make a contribution

I have a dentist with whom I have conversations.

He thinks that the way Native Americans lived, before we drove them out of here, was the ideal way to live.

Pit that against what Anastasia (The Ringing Cedars Of Russia) says.

The biggest difference between the two “ideal” societies is the role of women.

In the “Indian” tribal, nomadic society their role was to give birth, raise children, cook, etc. Everything outside of the home was done by the men.

In the Anastasia Utopian society women and men co-create a space of love for themselves and their offspring.

Most societies still suppress women and relegate them to childbirth and plaything.

The future depends on women. It has: 90% of darkness came from them. That’s what happens when you suppress the human spirit: it rebels and turns itself to darkness.

Let’s change this today, one woman at a time. OK?

I only ask you to share… just share. Please share… Thank you.

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What we are doing in the Second Phase Activators Course, right now, is digging for the root cause of our issues.

Students are having a hard time with this exercise.

Why? because the root cause, in our case, the default name we’ve given to ourselves, is horrible. The emotional anguish associated with the default name is near unconfrontable.

Most of us invented a way to compensate for the horror of that name to fix ourselves.

The problem is: there is nothing to fix. The original, default name isn’t true.

Today I recalled an Israeli movie I saw some time ago, ‘Bonjour Monsieur Shlomi.’ ¹

It’s about a fledgling high school student. She takes care of everyone in her family, does the cooking, baking, etc.

No one pays any attention at him, he is everyone’s favorite imbecile.

He talks little, listens a lot.

One day, at a written math exam, he walks out in the middle of the exam and throws his exam sheet in the garbage…

The teacher, substitute teacher who doesn’t “know” Shlomi, fishes out the exam sheet. All the problems were solved perfectly. In a few minutes time.

The teacher goes to the principal and the send Shlomi to an examination. Turns out he is a genius.

His family goes through a major upheaval but then they accept the “verdict.” His life continues as the life of a genius.

Why am I telling you this story?

Because unless someone digs deep enough and precisely enough for the root, they won’t be able to look at it.

Incidents like this movie are not the rule, they are the exception.

Ugly ducklings that spend their whole lives being a good little duck, being useful, or acting out and becoming abusive themselves, are what we see in real life. No one ever dares to look and see if, by accident, a swan is who they are.

I was called stupid by my whole family. I was dyslexic and very near sighted. I also find it impossible to memorize anything, poems, formulas, anything.

My brain won’t accept anything put into it, I need to process it first, and most things don’t make it through.

So I was called stupid. As in “not like us.”

I spent the next 30-40 years compensating for the sentence. I went to school most of my life, I read at least one book a week, I am a veritable overachiever.

And until I pulled this sentence out, and looked at it, I lived my life knowing that I don’t deserve much, that I won’t accomplish much.

At one point I spoke seven languages. But there was no joy in that.

Only when I discovered that the fact that I am not willing to just let things get into my mind unexamined, only when I discovered that being sharp as a tack and quick to grasp things makes others superficial, and lack depth and critical thinking that I relaxed into being the way I am and being OK with it.

In one word, I found out, like Shlomi in the movie, that I am unique and maybe a different species altogether.

When I first asked Source to do this work, I got a flat no for an answer.

I am not someone take a no without looking at the reasons, and found out that in order to teach human beings, you must behave in a likable way, and in that department I was waaay behind.

I was your typical off the wall nerd: no social skills, no tact, nothing.

And that was real. And that is, actually, what prompted me the most in raising my vibration.

Becoming a human being that others like to be around. Wasn’t easy.

But I tell you, much easier than succeed in spite of being billed as “the stupid one.”

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Soul correction is an active process. No one can do it for you.

Soul correction is the path to raising your vibration.

Every soul correction is a theme around which your life can be turned around: it’s like a pivot point.

It is a specific way you block the Light, it is a specific way YOU are not in the process of becoming an expanding human being, it is your way of “desire to receive for the self alone” i.e. at someone else’s expense.

You remember, the Creator doesn’t play favorites. It won’t take away from one to give it to another. Regardless if the other has right to what they have or not.

This is why when I ask the Creator to protect me from the Dark Side people, the Creator says No. Because protecting me would be taking away what is theirs, good or bad, or indifferent, won’t matter.

So the Creator is not like your dad who beat up your neighbor kid because he took away your toy, or yelled at the teacher because she gave you an F. The punishing, angry, selfish, jealous god is the figment of human imagination: no such thing in reality. As thee is no heaven any other place but potentially on Earth.

So, back to your soul correction:

Tools:

• knowing intimately what it is is very important.Your Bach flower profile, i.e. which of the 40 feelings are part of your persona, are invaluable. Each of those feelings are “desire to receive for the self alone”They are your reactions to life, and they limit you, make you sick, poor and miserable.
• Finding your default “name” and inventing new ones (from the Art of Soaring book and upcoming course) are probably the most precise but the hardest to master. And, of course, the harder something is to catch the bigger the result you’ll experience.

I am planning to create a course, once a week, open ended, more like a support group, where I would be able to give individual attention to participants, and participants would be able to support each other.

Much like what we are doing in the Second Phase Activators Course, but without the activators.

If you are interested, please email me with information on your time-zone so I can find a suitable time-slot. I don’t promise that the day will work for you, but at least the time will be working for most people. For example, for people in Australia 4-9 pm is workable.

But anything after 5 pm is too late for people in Europe.

Anyway, please let me know if you are interested and where you live. OK? Thanks.

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We had a revolutionary meditation this morning. (I started this article on February 4… five months ago)

Revolutionary comes from the word, revolve, and it means something that was up goes to the bottom, and vice versa.

Our meditations are not visual, no visualizing at all. You connect to Source, I download some activators, I witness what Source and the Light does, I report, and when the spirit so moves me, I comment, I report, I am like the game announcer… I tell you bit by bit what’s happening.

This is what was going on this morning.

Another little bit: I am connected to everyone on the call, but I am always connected more intimately to the people I have a relationship outside of these calls: there are only a few of those.

And I use their emotional reactions to gauge what is going on overall… across the board.

Today’s meditation was not soothing. It was the Light working hard and the people blocking it hard.

Once the meditation was over, I was starting to feel the feelings of my two people I was strongly connected on the call… not fun, not fun at all. They didn’t receive what was said too well. I felt that we may lose at least one of them.

What was said on the call was an important milestone: it was much like breaking the bad news to a sick person: unless you do this and this, you are going to that and that…

But, just like with a sick person, people’s willingness to change, people ability change, people’s commitment to change is not something you can count on.

We all give lip-service to want to be the best we can be, but we are lying. When push comes to shove, when the rubber hits the road, we are going to choose to do what we have always chosen.

I have a student who I have been working with for about a year now. Because he lives in my own city, we have a face to face relationship. It’s been one of the most significant feedback devices I have ever had.

Feeling someone and then seeing them, in action, driving, eating, shopping, on the chiropractor’s table, is something not every spiritual teacher, spiritual innovator gets a chance. I got lucky.

Eleven months of this year, I wasn’t able to penetrate the shield of this person. He was an enigma to me. I recognized his feelings, among hundreds, I knew his face, I knew exactly what he was going to say, but I did not know him. At all.

I knew what he was willing for me to see: his facade.

His facade? I must have seen the good things about him, you would think, but you would be wrong. WTF! right?

I managed to see a hapless, unhappy, slow, unattractive person only. Until two days ago.

Two days ago, in one of our Second Phase Activator classes we were digging for the “default name” we’ve given to us.

It was a good class. He said his default name was “I have nothing of value to give” but when he said it, there was no emotion over there.

When you say your default name, your heart hurts. It hurts so much that it is almost unbearable. It doesn’t matter who says it, you or someone else. It hurts.

Why does it hurt so much? Because we think it is true. Because we think it is true and it is horrible that it would be true.

We use our entire life to fix it, to hide it, to cover it up.

In a flash of inspiration I got that the real name is “I am useless.” And suddenly the mask fell away. Suddenly there was a person there, in front of my eyes, desperately trying to make a life for himself on the top of that horrible name, I am useless.

I was filled with love and compassion for him. I can get that! I can relate to that! I can get the heartbreak of the little boy that could not save his mother from his father’s abuse. I can get the little boy who, when he got a model airplane building kit, his father brushed him aside, “you are useless” and built the airplane… The little boy could not understand that the father didn’t get that kit for his son, he got it for himself… and to justify his greed he put his son down… yet another time.

With that name, this little boy (and man later on,) was doomed to have more and more evidence that he was useless.

And if I recounted his whole story, every step of the way you would see that the story plays out inside this tiny box: I am useless.

On one hand he is trying to be useful, almost forcing his help on others. On the other hand procrastinating, lazing about, never really learning anything with which he could build an alternate life for himself: why should he, he already knows that no matter what he does, he is useless, and that’s that.

Each and every person, you, me, Einstein, Obama, spiritual teachers, writers, sages, are all coming from a background of a default sentence.

The default sentence gives you the box (worldview) you live in. Some have a little bigger box than others. But we all have a box.

Is there a way outside of this? Indeed.

There is only one problem: most people will be unwilling to take that way.

So what is the way?

Let me start with an energetic rule: anything that you allow to be will allow you to be.
Or said in another way: What you resist starts running your life.

One of my original names was “I am stupid.” I decided to “tackle”it.

I was a business owner (this was about 20 years ago) and my business was struggling. I knew why? I was too stupid to make it successful. But I decided to question the true-ness of the axiom: you need to be smart to be successful.

I set out to watch people that were successful, and assess their level of smarts and education.

I found that neither had anything to do with their level of success.

I knew millionaires that had a 6-grade education. I knew millionaires that were moronic.

Hm. That is good news.

I invented a new sentence for myself: I’ll be the stupidest millionaire of all.

Did I succeed? If you are asking if I became a millionaire? No, I didn’t. But I succeeded in what I really wanted to succeed in: I am no longer limited by being stupid or smart. Do you know how I know? I stopped proving that I am smart, and I stopped berating myself as stupid when I made a mistake.

I became a much nicer person to have around. I wasn’t compulsively correcting everyone, I wasn’t pushing myself in the forefront… I had a space to just be.

Why is this important? I became a happier person. I became free-er… healthier, I slept better. I enjoyed working more.

Did this handle all my limitations? No. Why? Because this wasn’t the only limiting factor I had.

Was it still a huge breakthrough? Yes.

As a coach I have tried to teach others to do it, but I have failed. Every time.

Just like my student is unwilling to embrace that he is useless, others were unwilling to embrace their “predicament.”

But recently, out of Russia, two books came, and now there is another way to get outside of the box, outside of the labyrinth of your life: The Art of Soaring.

I have been teaching this to my Second Phase Activator Class students, and some of them are able and willing to use the techniques of soaring, and the results are astounding.

Now, back to the title: Jesus decided on choosing death because human beings weren’t (and aren’t) willing to admit to their shortcomings. He died because the alternative would have been failure…

Had he had the Art of Soaring at his disposal (having fun, humor, magic, etc. are not very Jewish tools, lol) he would have taught them, and the rest of history, our past two thousand years would have been heaven.

You see, there are messiahs and there are messiahs. The ones that only talk are not successful.

Talk is not able to transform the worldview of people, not even for a moment.

In the Art of Soaring it is the person who wants transformation is doing the speaking. And the speaking is a specific type of speaking: it is generative. It is imagery. It is speaking something that is born as you speak it.

The art of imagery, as Anastasia calls it. In bite size pieces. Capable to transforming lives. On a dime…

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Be prepared to be shocked… this is the energy we are using in the Soaring method

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I discuss there three recent healing sessions… I wish I had waited a day… Today we used the entire connection call to heal Maria who is making the rounds from doctor to doctor.

It was an amazing call and very useful. If you would like a listen, you can, but I’ll make you pay for it. Literally. Click here to go to paypal to pay for this recording. Please don’t forget to register onto the site after paying: I’d hate to have to do all the work myself… and all the emailing back and forth.

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Soul Correction Soul’s Purpose… are they one and the same?

First off, let me tell you: your soul correction is like the middle of your head: you can only see it through a mirror.

When I tell people what is their soul correction, they always argue. Because in all their years they have done everything to hide it.

This is what happened today:

A certain Jamie sent me an email, sarcastic in language, asking if it would be too much to ask that I give them what they paid for.

The soul correction donation came on May 5. I promptly sent out the email: I saw the payment coming in.

This was 10 weeks ago.

From the language of the email you know that the person is going to be trouble. Mind you, they have aol for email provider, so that should tell you something about their ability to know about the world: aol seriously limits what they allow you to get or not.

Anyway, I sent out the name of the soul correction and the link to the post:

here is the correspondence, reproduced:

Jamie: Would it be possible to have you send me the output from this donation?

Me: sharing the flame

Jamie: Not sure I understand the meaning though. Can you, in an e-mail, explicitly state me “soul purpose”?

Me: the soul’s purpose is to correct a character flaw, as way of being selfish, a desire to receive for the self alone.

Yours is that you keep yourself locked away, you are only taking and not giving of yourself.

Jamie: Hmmm….not at all aligned with all the other work I’ve been doing. Which is….I only give and I need to understand how to receive…..how do you reconcile?

Me: you seem to give, but not of yourself.
you wall yourself off

appearances are misleading

Jamie: Is that my soul purpose? walling off myself and not giving?

I’m not sure I “believe” in what you say. What I’m seeking is to know my soul purpose. Do you have a sense of this? If so, great….if not, I need to continue on my journey for knowledge….

Me: what you said is not your soul’s purpose.

The soul’s purpose is to become like god. And who you are being is not that.

who you are being is NOT DOING EVEN THE RESEARCH WORK, EVEN THE THINKING.

you are asking questions (taking)

The soul’s purpose is to become generous, vulnerable, and visible. And to actually grow.

You are being the opposite.

You can become that in any activity, though some activities are more suitable than others.

But, of course, this will not be acceptable for your persona, because you don’t want to do the soul’s purpose.

Not personal. That is the nature of human machines.

Jamie: Sophie,

I know with all my being you are a fraud!

Me: thank you

Jamie: Sophie,
I genuinely appreciate the confirmation that I’m correct. I’ve passed along this information.

This is not specific to Jamie, by the way.

Your soul correction: You can’t see it. It sounds like a racial slur, like an insult, like the words of a fraudster to you.

But you are the fraudster, or more precisely, human beings are fraudsters.

We have layer upon layers of trying to hide our shadow side. We like people that like us and agree with us. We seek out the people that won’t call us on our fraud.

In times like this, when the Dark Side is desperately trying to replace the wool over our eyes, when hours after hours of horrible feelings are being broadcasted so you shy away from the light and retreat into your biological machine state, play video games, sex, drink, drugs, hide, hide, hide… it takes an exceptional commitment to the Light to continue digging, revealing, and coming from the desire to expand, to grow, to correct, to become who human being was designed to be.

Tough… this is why the Dark Side is winning and threatening to kill even that small desire you have in you…

I can’t even fathom what’s in it for them, but it must be important. They are protecting their territory with a vengeance.

Of course Jamie would play onto their hands… as now others that write to me that I am a fraud.

Before this week no one said it… hm. Strange coincidence, coincides with the invention of the love activator.

I think it really threatens the Dark Side… lol

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